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Loving others without burnout: A guide for busy moms

Ideas to help you love and serve others even when you’re exhausted

Mom life is pretty much epitomized by serving. We are constantly giving ourselves away to take care of our families. So, adding more service to that mix can be downright overwhelming.

Yet, God calls us to love and serve not from a place of exhaustion, but from a heart filled with His strength and peace. Through Him, loving others without burnout is possible, even for the busiest mom.

We need to take a look at what God is actually calling us to do in loving in others and talk about ways to practically – realistically – make it happen in today’s life.

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This post is part of a series on Biblical love. Find all the details and links to other posts here.

A Free 28-Day Bible study for moms about love

Understanding God’s call to love

Loving others is at the core of our faith. These words from Jesus reminds us plainly:

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

John 13:34-35

This call to love is not just for when we have extra time or energy; it’s a daily commitment to love others like Jesus.

In Matthew 22:39, Jesus says the first great commandment is to love God with all your heart, and the second one is to love others. Note the word “commandment” in both of these Scripture references.

A commandment isn’t a suggestion or even a “good idea if it works for you.” It’s something we must do.

Loving others starts with receiving God’s love

God never calls us to do something without giving us the resources to do it. Before we can pour into others, we must first be filled with God’s love ourselves.

“We love because He first loved us.”

1 John 4:19

If we try to serve others from a place of emptiness, we will quickly become exhausted. Taking time to connect with God refreshes our souls and gives us the strength we need to love others well.

This isn’t about adding more to our to-do list. It’s about allowing God’s love to flow into our daily lives so that loving others becomes a natural outpouring instead of a draining obligation.

Let’s also be honest that finding time with God can be challenging as a busy mom, especially if you have little ones who need you constantly. Try some of these practical ways to work God-time into your daily routine.

  • Utilize alone time in the bathroom by spending time in prayer while you shower or reading your Bible while you dry your hair. (I do both of these things!)
  • If you find yourself alone in the car, pray or listen to a sermon. With or without your kids, tuning into Christian music in the car is another great way to connect with God. (Try this playlist on Spotify that I keep adding to.)
  • Find a set time to connect with God, so it becomes part of your routine. Consider getting up earlier, staying up later, using nap time or utilizing your lunch break. I’ve even read my Bible in the school pick-up line when my routine has gotten interrupted!
  • Try a devotional to help you get in God’s Word daily or at least commit to reading a verse or two per day. (Check out all of these free Bible reading plans!)
  • Pray and ask God to help you find time to connect. God knows your heart — and your schedule. It’s OK to ask Him for help in figuring out when and how to best connect with Him.

Loving in small, intentional ways

Sometimes we fall into the trap of thinking serving and loving others means big commitments or gestures. While those are awesome, you can also find lots of small ways to love on others.

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Really, what matters most is your intentions as the Apostle Paul reminds us.

“Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

Romans 12:9-10

Unsurprisingly, prayer is a great place to start with this. Ask God to open your eyes and help you see others who need just a little something extra each day.

Try some of these small, intentional ways to love on others:

  • Text a friend to check in. This is especially great if they’re in a difficult season, but even if they aren’t, you’re still letting them know you care — and everyone loves that!
  • Pray for the neighbor you see walking down the road. They’ll never even know, but that’s OK.
  • Encourage the cashier at the grocery store with a warm smile or compliment.
  • On trash pick-up day, help a neighbor by moving their trashcans back up to their house.
  • Pick up a few extras at the grocery store to donate to a local food pantry.

Even small acts of kindness matter, and they reflect God’s love in powerful ways.

Setting healthy boundaries to avoid burnout

Loving others doesn’t mean saying yes to everything. Jesus Himself set boundaries, stepping away from the crowds to pray and rest. Setting limits is not selfish—it’s necessary.

Jesus wants us to seek Him for rest and understands firsthand that we need rest.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

Matthew 11:28

When we say yes to every request out of guilt or obligation, we risk becoming overwhelmed and resentful. And that’s completely opposite from the idea of loving others without burnout!

Instead, ask God for wisdom to know where He is truly calling you to love and serve. When our love is guided by His direction rather than pressure, it becomes life-giving rather than draining.

Remember your capacity to serve others may change in the different seasons of motherhood you’re in — and that’s fine.

I know finding time to rest as a mom is hard. It’s something I struggle with regularly. Try these strategies to help you find some rest and avoid burnout.

  • Define what rest is to you at the moment. Your definition of rest shifts in different phases of life. You may need to redefine what rest looks like for your now as a mom. It can be as simple as ordering pizza for dinner and watching a movie with your family.
  • Intentionally look for small pockets of time to refuel. Having an entire day of rest probably isn’t feasible as a mom. Look instead for a few minutes here and there you can intentionally rest. Even five minutes of quiet time can be incredibly refreshing!
  • Spend downtime in restful ways other than always scrolling mindlessly on your phone. Think about what you really enjoy and find little ways to work those into your rest time. I love to read, and often use the time waiting for my children in the car to have quiet reading time. Whatever works!
  • Do something just because you want to. We are always doing things we have to. Pick even just 30 minutes a week and do something you want to do. Give yourself grace to let go of the running to-do list in your head and do something just for you.
  • Ask God to help you find rest and downtime in this phase of motherhood. It isn’t easy, but we do need rest. He created us that way and will help us find rest if we let Him.

Teaching our children to love others

As Christian moms, we want to see our children love others and avoid being selfish. One of the best ways to teach that is by example.

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How we talk and how we act has a big impact on our children’s attitudes.

“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.”

1 John 3:18

We need to show our kids love in action. When they see us serving with joy rather than obligation, they learn that love is not about duty—it’s about reflecting God’s heart.

Along with modeling a life of loving others, we can also get our children involved with loving others from a young age. Try some of these ideas:

  • Encourage your children to pray for their friends during their prayer time. This also helps them learn they can talk to God about everything and everyone. (Check out these simple DIY prayer envelopes to help your kids pray for others.)
  • Have them color a picture or write a note to someone going through a hard time or even just because. This can be extended family, church family, a friend, a neighbor or really anyone!
  • Take them with you to shop for a local food pantry and explain what you’re doing. Doing this with my children has made a tremendous and lasting impact.
  • Bake or buy treats to share with community members. Pass them out to first responders, your church staff, their pediatrician, their favorite librarian or whoever you’d like to show some appreciation for.
  • Volunteer together at a food pantry or soup kitchen if your children are old enough. They’ll usually have a great time and get to learn that serving others can be fun and rewarding.

For even more, check out these 16 volunteer ideas for families to do together.

The key to loving others without burnout

Overall, the key to loving others without burnout starts with God. When we connect to Him, find small acts of kindness to do regularly, set healthy boundaries like Jesus and model love to our children, we can use His strength to keep on loving and serving.

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” 

Galatians 6:9

Loving others as a busy mom doesn’t mean overextending ourselves—it means loving in the way God designed. It means continuing the work of the Father in whatever ways we are able in our current season.

Bible verses about loving others

These Bible verses come from our Bible reading plan about love from the free “Love in Action” Bible study. They are great Scriptures to reflect on when it comes to loving others.

  • Matthew 22:37-29
  • 1 John 3:16-18
  • Galatians 6:9-10
  • Romans 12:9-10
  • Matthew 5:43-44

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Stories of God’s love in the Bible

A reflection for Christian moms

As mamas, our days are filled with moments that challenge and bless us, often in equal measure. In the midst of all this, there’s one constant: God’s love.

His love is the foundational cornerstone of our faith and a source of strength in our everyday lives. The stories of God’s love in the Bible remind us that His love is eternal, unchanging and available to us in every situation.

Let’s take a moment to dive into some of these beautiful Bible stories that highlight the depth of His love and how it impacts our lives as moms.

This post is part of a series on Biblical love. Find all the details and links to other posts here.

A Free 28-Day Bible study for moms about love

The prodigal son: A story of redemption and open arms

The parable of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) is a powerful reminder of the kind of love God offers us—a love that welcomes us back with open arms, no matter how far we’ve wandered.

In this story of a father with two sons, the younger son takes his inheritance early. He then leave home and wastes all his money on reckless living.

When a severe famine strikes, he finds himself penniless, feeding pigs and longing for the food they eat. In his despair, he decides to return to his loving father, expecting to be treated as a servant. Instead, his father runs to meet him, welcomes him back with open arms and celebrates his return with a feast.

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Practical application

As moms, we often feel like we need to have everything together. But the love of God isn’t based on our perfection. When we make mistakes—whether it’s losing our temper or feeling like we’re falling short—we can trust in God’s grace. Take a moment to pray and reset, knowing His love never wavers.

Teach your kids about the beauty of forgiveness. Use this story to explain that no matter what they do, they can always turn to their Heavenly Father (and you) for love and acceptance. Model forgiveness in your family by letting go of grudges and showing grace to your children and spouse.

Encouragement for moms

The story of the Prodigal Son is a beautiful reminder of how God’s love meets us in every season of life, including motherhood. Just as the father in the story welcomed his son home with open arms, God welcomes us with grace and love, no matter how far we feel we’ve strayed.

When motherhood feels overwhelming, and you’re wrestling with guilt over mistakes or shortcomings, remember that God’s love isn’t based on your performance. He sees your heart and offers new mercies every morning.

If you’re walking through a tough season with one of your children, this story also reminds us of the power of unconditional love. The father didn’t give up on his son, even when he was far away.

As moms, we can keep praying, loving and trusting God to work in our children’s hearts, even when we can’t see the results right away. God’s love reaches places we can’t, and He is always calling our children back to Him.

Take heart in knowing God rejoices over you just as the father celebrated his son’s return. He’s not waiting for you to have it all together before He loves you. Instead, He meets you in your mess, offering rest, grace and a love that never fails.

In every season of motherhood—whether it’s joyful, messy, or exhausting—you can trust that God’s love is more than enough to carry you through. Next time you feel overwhelmed, take a moment to reflect on how God welcomes you with open arms, just as you are. Let this truth encourage you to extend that same grace to yourself and others.

The good Samaritan: Loving others in everyday life

In the story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37), Jesus tells of a Jewish man is beaten and left for dead on the side of the road. A priest and a Levite, both respected figures, pass by without helping.

But a Samaritan—someone despised by the Jewish people—stops to care for the injured man. He bandages his wounds, takes him to an inn and pays for his care.

Jesus Christ uses this story to teach the kind of love and compassion should go beyond social and cultural barriers, embodying what it means to love our neighbors.

Practical application

As moms, we have opportunities every day to show kindness. It could be offering a smile to another mom at the store, helping a neighbor in need or organizing a playdate for a mom who seems lonely.

These small acts of kindness reflect God’s goodness and teach our children what it means to love others.

Teach your kids about helping others by involving them in acts of service. Whether it’s baking cookies for a neighbor, donating toys or volunteering as a family, these experiences will plant seeds of compassion in their hearts.

Encouragement for moms

The story of the Good Samaritan is a powerful reminder that small, intentional acts of kindness can make a big difference.

As moms, our days are filled with opportunities to love and serve, even in simple ways like comforting a child after a tough day, offering a kind word to another mom or lending a hand to someone in need. These seemingly small moments of love reflect the heart of God and teach our children what it means to live out His love in practical ways.

It’s easy to feel like the work we do as moms goes unnoticed, but the Good Samaritan shows us love in action is never wasted. Just as the Samaritan’s compassion had a lasting impact on the injured man, your kindness can make a difference in the lives of those around you.

Whether it’s a meal shared with a struggling friend or a listening ear offered to your spouse, every act of love is a reflection of God’s goodness at work through you.

When you feel stretched thin, remember God equips you to love others with His strength. You don’t have to do it all or have every answer—God uses even your smallest efforts to make an impact. Lean into His love, knowing that as you care for your family and extend kindness to others, you are living out the example of the Good Samaritan, showing God’s love in tangible, meaningful ways.

Look for small ways to show love to someone around you today. These acts of love reflect the glory of God.

Ruth and Naomi: A story of loyalty and God’s provision

The book of Ruth shows us a beautiful example of loyalty and trust in God’s plan. It tells the story of a Moabite woman named Ruth and her mother-in-law Naomi. After the death of their husbands, Naomi decides to return to her homeland, urging Ruth to stay behind.

But Ruth refuses, saying, “Where you go, I will go; where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.” (Ruth 1:16)

Ruth’s loyalty leads her to a new life in Bethlehem, where she meets Boaz, a kind man who eventually becomes her husband.

Through this union, Ruth becomes part of the lineage of Jesus Christ, demonstrating God’s provision and faithfulness.

Practical application

Trusting in God’s plan can be hard, especially when life feels uncertain. Take time to pray and surrender your worries to God, trusting that He sees your individual needs and will guide you through every situation.

Also, foster loyalty and strong family bonds by creating meaningful traditions with your kids. Something as simple as a family fun night or bedtime prayers can build connections that last a lifetime.

Encouragement for moms

The story of Ruth and Naomi beautifully illustrates the power of loyalty and love, even in the hardest times. As moms, we often find ourselves walking through seasons of uncertainty or struggle, whether it’s juggling family responsibilities, dealing with financial pressures or navigating changes in relationships.

Ruth’s steadfast commitment to Naomi reminds us God honors faithfulness, especially when we persevere in love and trust Him through the unknown.

Ruth’s story shows us we don’t have to have all the answers to move forward. Like Ruth, who chose to follow Naomi and trust God’s provision, we can take one step at a time, trusting that God will guide us.

Whether it’s loving our children through their struggles, supporting a friend in need or holding onto hope in a challenging situation, our faithfulness in love is a reflection of God’s heart and His unwavering faithfulness to us.

When you feel like you’re giving your all and still wondering what’s next, take heart in knowing God sees you. He is at work, just as He was in Ruth’s life, weaving His plan for good even when it’s hard to see in the moment.

Like Ruth, your love and commitment have the power to change lives, bringing hope and blessing to your family and others around you. Trust that God’s faithfulness will sustain you and lead you into a season of His abundant grace.

When you feel uncertain about your next steps, remember Ruth’s loyalty and God’s faithfulness. Pray for wisdom and trust in His plan, knowing He sees your heart and your efforts.

The lost sheep: A picture of God’s pursuing love

In the parable of the lost sheep (Luke 15:3-7), Jesus tells of a good shepherd who leaves his 99 sheep to search for the one that has strayed. When he finds it, he joyfully carries it home, celebrating its return.

This story illustrates God’s everlasting love for each of us. No matter how far we wander, He seeks us out and rejoices when we come back to Him.

Practical application

As moms, we often feel pulled in a million directions, but this story reminds us of the value of focusing on the one. Whether it’s spending one-on-one time with your child or reaching out to a friend who’s struggling, these moments reflect the heart of God.

Share this story with your children to teach them about the depth of God’s love. Help them understand they are deeply valued and cherished, just as they are.

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Encouragement for moms

The parable of the lost sheep reminds us that every person matters deeply to God. As moms, it’s easy to feel unseen or wonder if what we’re doing truly makes a difference.

But this story shows us God doesn’t just see the crowd; He sees the one. He goes after the lost and hurting with relentless love, and that same love is extended to us every single day.

Just as the shepherd didn’t give up until he found the missing sheep, God’s love for you is unending. On days when you feel like you’re falling short or struggling to keep up, remember God isn’t asking you to be perfect.

He delights in you as His child and seeks you out when you’re weary or lost. You can rest in the truth that His love isn’t based on your performance but on His unchanging character.

Let this story encourage you to model that same love to your children. Whether it’s through a moment of patience when they’ve made a mistake or through your persistence in guiding them back to the right path, your efforts reflect God’s heart.

Trust that even in the small, unseen moments, your love is making an eternal difference in their lives. And when you feel like the one who is lost, know God is always pursuing you with His arms open wide.

Take a moment to really reflect on the idea that you are God’s lost sheep, worth seeking and saving. When you feel unseen or unappreciated, take comfort in the assurance of God’s presence.

Paul on the Road to Damascus: A Life Transformed by God’s Love

The story of Paul on the road to Damascus (Acts 9:1-22) is one of the most dramatic examples of God’s transformative love.

Before encountering Jesus, Paul (then called Saul) was a Pharisee who persecuted Christians. While traveling to Damascus to arrest believers, a bright light suddenly surrounded him, and he heard the voice of Jesus asking, “Saul, Saul, why do you persecute me?”

Blinded and overwhelmed, Paul obeyed Jesus’ instruction to go into the city and wait. Three days later, a man named Ananias, following God’s command, prayed for Paul, and his sight was restored.

From that moment, Paul’s life completely changed. He went from being a persecutor of Christians to one of the most influential apostles, spreading the Gospel across the world.

Practical application

Paul’s story shows us that no one is beyond God’s reach. If you have loved ones who are far from faith, don’t lose hope. Pray for them consistently and trust that God can work in their lives in ways you can’t imagine.

Also, as moms, we all have areas where we want to improve—whether it’s being more patient, more present or stronger in our faith.

Just as Paul surrendered to God’s call, we, too, can let Him lead us through changes, big or small. Start by praying for His guidance in the areas where you feel stuck or need growth.

Finally, Paul didn’t hesitate to follow Jesus’ instructions, even when it was scary and unclear. When you feel prompted by God—whether it’s to encourage someone, serve your family differently or let go of something weighing you down—trust His plan and take that step in faith.

Encouragement for moms

Paul’s life reminds us that God’s love doesn’t just forgive—it transforms. You are not defined by your past mistakes, your bad days or the times you feel you’ve fallen short as a mom. God’s love sees your potential and works to shape you into someone who reflects His grace and goodness.

When you feel overwhelmed by guilt or inadequacy, remember Paul’s story. If God can take someone like Saul, who actively fought against Him, and turn him into one of the most impactful figures in Christianity, imagine what He can do in your life!

Lean into God’s love and let it renew your heart and mind. With His guidance, you can become the mom, wife and woman He created you to be.

Take a deep breath, trust in His power to work through you, and know that your story is still being written.

Bringing it all together: Living in God’s love daily

The stories of God’s love in the Bible aren’t just inspiring—they are deeply personal. They show us that His love is present in every season, whether we’re navigating the chaos of parenting, strengthening our marriages or loving others.

His love is a great love that meets us in our mess, pursues us when we wander and restores us when we’re broken.

Practical application

One way to live daily in God’s love is to start your day meditating on a Bible verse, and letting His love set the tone for your day.

(The free Bible reading plan about love is a great place to start with just a verse or two per day!)

Another great tip for focusing on the love of God is creating a gratitude journal to write down daily examples of how you see God’s love in your life. Share this practice with your kids to help them recognize His goodness, too.

Don’t forget to make time for quiet reflection or worship. Even five minutes can help you reconnect with the heart of God.

Finally, as we focus on love this week, let’s take time to reflect on how God’s love touches our daily lives. Whether through the unwavering loyalty seen in the book of Ruth, the redemption of the prodigal son or the compassion of the Good Samaritan, we are reminded that God’s love is a constant source of hope and strength.

Bible verses to reflect on this week

Take these Bible verses, along with the stories of God’s love, and let them fill your heart and mind as you go about your week.

Psalm 136:26

“Give thanks to the God of heaven. His love endures forever.

Psalm 136:26 (NIV)
John 3:16

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.”

John 3:16 (NIV)
Lamentations 3:22-23

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.”

Lamentations 3:22-23 (NIV)

The many facets of Biblical love

A reflection and free Bible study for Christian moms

Love is one of the most powerful forces in the world. It’s at the core of who God is and how He relates to us.

As Christian moms, we know love in many forms—from the selfless love we show our children to the enduring love we nurture in our marriages, and even the intentional love we offer to friends and strangers alike. Each of these forms of love reflects a piece of God’s perfect love.

February often brings love to the forefront, and it’s a perfect time to reflect on the many ways we experience and share love in our lives.

Let’s dive into the beauty and depth of love as seen in God’s Word and how it touches every aspect of our daily lives.

This month, let’s focus specifically on God’s love for us, our love as mothers, love in our marriages and love for others.

God’s unfailing love

The Bible is rich with stories and promises of God’s love for His people. From the father in the parable of the Prodigal Son who runs to welcome his wayward child back home to the Good Samaritan who shows compassion to a stranger in need, God’s love is a model for us all.

His love is unconditional, sacrificial and steadfast—qualities we all want to reflect in our own relationships.

God’s love also provides the foundation for our faith. It’s a love that pursues us, redeems us and assures us that nothing can separate us from Him (Romans 8:38-39). As moms, we can take comfort in knowing that the same love we share with our children is rooted in God’s greater love for us.

His love is patient when we falter, generous when we lack and constant when we feel unworthy. As moms, we can take comfort in knowing that the same love we share with our children is rooted in God’s greater love for us.

Love in marriage

Marriage is one of the most intimate expressions of love, designed by God to be a reflection of Christ’s love for the church. While it’s easy to focus on romantic gestures during Valentine’s season, true love in marriage goes far deeper.

It’s about patience, kindness, forgiveness and selflessness, as described in 1 Corinthians 13.

As busy moms, prioritizing our marriages amidst the demands of parenting, work and daily life can be challenging

Yet, nurturing love in marriage is vital, not just for us but also for the example it sets for our children. When we lean into God’s design for love in marriage, we can experience greater joy and unity.

A mother’s love

Few loves are as instinctive and sacrificial as a mother’s love for her child. From sleepless nights with a newborn to the emotional rollercoaster of raising teens, motherhood constantly calls us to give of ourselves.

This love mirrors God’s nurturing care for us, as seen in Isaiah:

“As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you.”

Isaiah 66:13

While motherhood is a journey filled with challenges, it’s also a profound way to experience and demonstrate God’s love.

Through the everyday acts of service, encouragement and discipline, we have the opportunity to show our children what it means to love as God loves.

Loving others

Jesus’ command to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39) reminds us that love isn’t confined to our families. It extends to our friends, neighbors and even those who are difficult to love.

This kind of love often requires intentional effort, but it’s a powerful way to reflect God’s love to the world.

Whether it’s lending a listening ear to a friend, serving a stranger in need or showing kindness to someone who has hurt us, loving others stretches our hearts and draws us closer to God. It’s a love that goes beyond feelings and is rooted in action.

Embracing love in every season

Each type of love we experience—whether it’s God’s unfailing love, the love in our marriages, the love we pour into our children or the love we show to others—teaches us something about God’s character and His plan for us. Love isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it.

As we prepare to focus on love this February, let’s ask God to help us see His love more clearly and share it more fully. Whether through big gestures or small, everyday moments, love is a gift that changes us and those around us.

So, how can you reflect love in your life this week? Let’s step into February with hearts ready to embrace the love God has for us and to share that love with those He’s placed in our lives.

Free online Bible study for moms

Join us for the free Love in Action Bible study for moms to go even further into these four different types of love. We’ll take a closer look at all four and grow in our relationship with God as well as with our families.

Find all the details here:

A Free 28-Day Bible study for moms about love

Bible verses about hope (with a free reading plan)

Encouragement for moms amid life’s chaos

Hope. It’s a word we toss around a lot, but when life feels overwhelming, it’s also something we desperately crave.

As moms, we juggle so much—kids’ schedules, household responsibilities, work, relationships and our own personal struggles. Add in moments of doubt or hardship, and hope can sometimes feel distant or even impossible.

But lot of Bible verses about hope in God’s Word remind us hope isn’t just wishful thinking; it’s a firm anchor for our souls.

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What is hope?

Biblically, hope is a confident expectation in God’s promises. It’s not about crossing our fingers and wishing for good things to happen.

It’s about knowing that God is faithful, even when life is messy. Romans 15:13 beautifully expresses this:

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

This hope is not dependent on our circumstances but on God’s unchanging character. When we feel weary or overwhelmed, we can lean into this truth.

Why do moms struggle with hope?

Let’s be honest. As moms, life often feels like a hamster wheel, and the constant busyness can make us feel drained.

It’s hard to hold on to hope when everything seems chaotic or when prayers go unanswered. We might even wonder if God sees our struggles.

But in these moments, hope is precisely what we need. It’s what shifts our focus from our problems to God’s promises. Isaiah 40:31 reminds us:

“But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

How to cultivate hope in daily life

We know that hope is important, and we want to lean into the hope of God. There are a few ways we can be intentional about living in more hope daily.

Stay rooted in Scripture.

Spending even a few minutes in God’s Word can fill our hearts with hope. That’s why I’ve put together a variety of free Bible reading plans for moms that use just a verse or two a day.

You can spend the next 31 days focusing on Bible verses about hope in small, manageable chunks of Scripture. We all need reminders of God’s faithfulness to carry us through our hectic days.

Pray with expectation.

Prayer is our lifeline to God. It doesn’t have to be elaborate or lengthy—a simple cry for help or a whispered “thank you” is enough.

Through prayer, we can cast our worries on Him and trust that He is working, even when we can’t see it. And when we focus on God in prayer, we are more inclined to be filled with more hope in Him.

Surround yourself with encouragement.

Whether it’s a verse on your bathroom mirror or a friend who texts you prayers, find ways to keep hope visible. Community is vital, and sharing burdens with others can lighten the load.

Consider joining my online community of Christian moms in the free and private Facebook group, Christian Moms with Grace. It’s a great place to find encouragement.

Plus, we discuss the simple reading plan each month and take a deeper dive a few times a year as well to help you stay connected to God while also connecting with other Christian mamas like you.

Look for God in everyday moments

Hope grows when we acknowledge God’s goodness in the small things. Did you see a breathtaking sunrise? Was your child unexpectedly kind?

These glimpses of grace are reminders of His love. Take time throughout the day to appreciate these blessings in the moment.

A free reading plan for hope

This month, I’ve created a 31-day Bible reading plan on hope, designed with busy moms in mind. Each week has a specific theme—from finding hope in hard times to sharing hope with others—and includes reflection questions to help you dig deeper.

My prayer is that this plan will not only help you grow in faith but also remind you that you are never alone in your struggles. These Bible verses about hope will encourage and uplift you daily.

Let’s lean into the hope God offers. When we do, we’ll find that even in our toughest moments, His promises hold us steady. So take a breath, grab your Bible and let’s walk this journey of hope together.

Stop the hustle: Discovering God’s plan for rest

Even in the busyness of motherhood, God calls you to rest!

“There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God’s rest also rests from their works, just as God did from his.”

Hebrews 4:9-10

Mom life is busy life. There are always tasks to be accomplished. Always.

Never taking a break for rest can be tempting, but it’s neither good for us nor what God intended for us.

It can be easy to scoff at the idea of a day of rest when you’re a mom, especially when you have small children. Yet, we do need rest.

And so we must give ourselves permission to not be productive all the time. We may not get an entire day to just sit and do nothing. That’s probably not feasible.

However, we certainly don’t need to beat ourselves up for slowing down and taking a break. It’s OK to ask for help, take a nap or just do what it takes to survive for a day.

Let today be the day you give yourself permission to rest!

Prayer:

Dear God, it can be really hard for me to find time to rest. There is always so much on my to-do list, and I struggle to be still. So many people depend on me. Yet, I know you created me to need rest. Open my eyes to see opportunities for rest you give me. Help me to relax in peace knowing that having downtime isn’t a sin. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Hebrews 4:9-10
A mom's prayer for rest

Following God’s prompting

How the shepherds’ quick obedience challenges us to act when God calls

“When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, ‘Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.’”

Luke 2:15 (NIV)

Have you ever had a moment when God asked you to do something? I have. A few years ago, I was at a local hardware store and heard an employee talking about the health struggles she was having.

God asked me to speak to her and tell her I’d pray for her since I also was dealing with my own health struggles and had for years.

I’d love to tell you I spoke with her, she was encouraged and we became good friends. But that’s not how the story goes. Instead, I resisted. I kept my mouth shut.

I wasn’t like the shepherds who immediately jumped up and took off to see the gift God had given them. I didn’t obey that day.

Their example is one we would do well to take note of and heed. More than anything, I want to be so in tune with God that when He prompts me, I act immediately without giving a second thought.

Prayer:

Dear God, forgive me for the times I have not followed your leading. Open my eyes and ears to see and hear you at work. Show me what you would have me to do, and give me the strength to do it. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Luke 2:15
A prayer for moms

Pregnancy, pain and perseverance: Lessons from Mary’s journey

What Mary’s journey teaches us about faith and gratitude in tough seasons

”While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.”

Luke 2:6-7 (NIV)

In 2012, I was pregnant at Christmas. My son was born the end of the following January, so I was very pregnant that year.

It was a miserable third trimester that involved a lot of pain and modified bedrest. Yet, that discomfort pales in comparison to what Mary surely experienced.

She gave birth in a stable of all places – without any women around to help her through the terrifying and overwhelming experience of childbirth.

Yet, the Bible tells us how Mary was positive. She said yes to God and followed Him wholeheartedly even when it was hard. Even when it didn’t make sense. And even when she knew those around her were going to judge her harshly.

Somehow Mary was able to be both miserable and thankful. That’s the attitude I want to maintain when times are hard. Because in every moment and struggle, there always remains something for which to be thankful.

One thing I know to be true: God is always good.

Prayer:

Dear God, thank you for sending Jesus into the world to save me from my sins. When I am struggling and miserable, give me strength to keep going. Help me to see the good around me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Luke 2:6-7
A prayer for moms

Speaking words of life: What Elizabeth taught us about encouragement

Learn the power of speaking life into those around you

“When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice she exclaimed: ‘Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear!’”

Luke 1:41-42 (NIV)

When we talk about the Christmas story, we marvel at the strength and obedience of Mary – and we should. But we also need to pay attention to her cousin Elizabeth.

Right after the angel visits Mary, she goes to stay with her cousin Elizabeth. I can only imagine how overwhelmed Mary felt by learning she was going to have the Son of God.

She needed confirmation and encouragement. Right away, that’s exactly what Elizabeth did. She followed the Holy Spirit to encourage Mary.

Sometimes the best thing we can do to help those around us – from our children to our friends – is be the voice of encouragement. When people are facing difficult situations, they need a positive voice reminding them they matter and what they are doing is important.

In just one compound sentence, Elizabeth surely soothed Mary’s heart. Whose heart can you soothe today with kind words of encouragement?

Prayer:

Dear God, I know words are powerful. Thank you for this example of encouragement. Open my eyes today to see those around me who need a positive word from me. Give me the right words. And, if that person is the one I see in the mirror, help me to speak positively to myself. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Luke 1:41-42
A prayer for encouragement

From Mary to us: Why God’s promises still hold true today

Finding comfort in the promises of God

“For no word from God will ever fail.”

Luke 1:37 (NIV)

These are the parting words the angel Gabriel said to Mary before he left her. He proclaimed God’s word and promise that both Mary and Elizabeth were going to have babies.

Mary’s situation was miraculous in having a baby who would be the son of God. Elizabeth’s pregnancy was also a miracle, because she was of advanced age.

Yet, the angel plainly reminded Mary that God’s Word won’t ever fail. We can still trust in it today. The Bible is full of promises and ways that God will be with us.

It tells us that God is always with us, and we don’t need to fear. It tells us that God loves us and calls us His own.

We can trust in the unchanging and infallible Word of God. If God has given you a promise to hang on to, and you just aren’t seeing anything happen, then just hold tight.

No word from God will ever fail. He’s working, even when you can’t see Him.

Prayer:

Dear God, thank you for your Word and the reminder that all your Words are true. Your promises are good, and I trust you with my life. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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A prayer for taking comfort in God's promises

A Free Advent Bible reading plan for moms this Christmas

A simple way to celebrate the birth of Christ this season

The holiday season is filled with hustle and bustle that can leave even the most organized mom feeling overwhelmed. With buying gifts, attending events, keeping up with family traditions and managing our households, we can lose sight of the true meaning of Christmas—the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ.

This year, I invite you to pause and reflect with an Advent Bible reading plan designed specifically for moms. This Advent reading plan is a great way to stay grounded in God’s Word throughout the month of December, focusing on the story of Jesus and His miraculous arrival.

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The plan includes daily Bible readings, reflective questions and a dedicated page for prayer requests and praises. Whether you’re doing this as part of your personal quiet time, with a small group or even as part of your family devotions, it’s a beautiful way to slow down and keep your eyes on Jesus.

What is an Advent Bible reading plan?

The season of Advent marks the weeks leading up to Christmas. It’s a time for Christians to prepare their hearts for the coming of Christ.

An Advent Bible reading plan is a structured guide to help us get into God’s word every day and focus on the story of Christ from prophecy to fulfillment.

This Advent Scripture reading plan weaves together key Old Testament prophecies, the beautiful narrative from the Gospel of Luke and New Testament reflections on the significance of Christ’s birth.

For moms, it can be particularly meaningful. In the midst of the busyness of the Christmas season, these daily readings offer a chance to connect with the Holy Spirit, reflect on God’s promises and discover fresh ways to celebrate the true reason for this season.

How the Advent reading plan works

This Advent plan is designed to be simple and flexible. Starting on December 1st, you’ll read one or two verses each day, following themes that walk through the Christmas story:

Week 1: The Promise of a Savior
Week 2: Mary’s Yes
Week 3: The Gift of Good News
Week 4: Worship and Giving
Week 5: Living the Christmas Story

Each day’s reading is short enough to fit into your busy schedule while still providing time to meditate on its meaning. Plus, you’ll find reflective questions for each week’s reading, encouraging you to go deeper and apply these truths to your life.

Why use an Advent Bible reading plan?

For many moms, the busyness of the season can overshadow the joy of preparing for Christ’s birth. This Advent Scripture reading plan is a tool to help you reclaim the peace and wonder of the Advent season. Here’s how it can bless you:

Reconnect with God’s Word

In the flurry of holiday preparations, it’s easy to let time in Scripture slip. This plan helps you stay consistent with daily scripture readings, guiding you through the birth of Christ while highlighting the beauty of God’s faithfulness.

Reflect on the true meaning of Christmas

Through Advent reflections and days of readings, you’ll be reminded of the richness of the Christmas story and God’s great love for us. This isn’t just about knowing the story of Jesus—it’s about experiencing the wonder of His arrival anew.

Strengthen family traditions

This plan isn’t just for moms! It’s a wonderful resource for family devotions, allowing you to share the story of Christ with your kids.

Consider pairing the readings with a children’s Bible or using the Advent calendar as a visual aid for younger kids.

Create space for prayer and gratitude

Alongside the Advent readings, you’ll find a printable page for recording prayer requests and praises. This is an opportunity to reflect on how God has worked in your life and to bring your cares before Him in this special season.

Get the free Advent Bible reading plan

This Advent Bible reading plan is a simple yet powerful way to stay connected to God’s Word during the Advent season. Whether you’re a mom juggling schedules or looking for a way to introduce your kids to the story of Christ, this plan offers a thoughtful approach to the busyness of the Christmas season.

Ideas for Using the Advent Reading Plan as a Family

  1. Incorporate it into your nightly routine: Gather as a family each evening to read the day’s Scripture. Pair it with lighting a candle on your Advent wreath or sharing something you’re grateful for that day.
  2. Use it with a children’s Bible: For younger kids, read the verses from a children’s Bible with illustrations. This helps bring the story of Christ to life in a way that’s easy for them to understand.
  3. Tie it to your Advent calendar: If you use an Advent calendar, pair each day’s treat or activity with the corresponding daily scripture reading to reinforce the true meaning of Christmas.
  4. Create a prayer chain: Write prayer requests or praises on paper strips each day after reading the Scripture. Link them together to form a chain that grows throughout the month. On Christmas morning, review your chain and thank God for His faithfulness.
  5. Make it interactive: After each day’s reading, invite your kids to draw or color something inspired by the verse. For example, they could draw angels after reading about the shepherds or a star for the Wise Men.
  6. Start a family journal: Use a notebook to jot down a quick reflection each day as a family. Answer questions like, “What did we learn about Jesus today?” or “How can we live out today’s verse?”
  7. Tie it to family traditions: Incorporate the readings into established traditions. For instance, share the Scriptures while decorating the tree, setting up a nativity scene, or baking Christmas cookies.
  8. Share the plan with others: Invite extended family or friends to join you in the Advent Bible readings. You could even set up a group chat to share reflections, prayer requests or praises throughout the month.
  9. Bring it into Sunday dinner: If your family gathers weekly for dinner, take a few minutes to review the week’s verses and discuss what stood out to each person.
  10. Celebrate milestones: As you move through the season of Advent, celebrate milestones like Mary’s “yes” or the shepherds hearing the good news. Use these moments to discuss how they connect to the way we live out our faith today.

A Great Way to Celebrate the Birth of Jesus

This Advent reading plan is more than just daily scripture readings; it’s an opportunity to slow down, connect with your family and focus on the true reason for the season.

Whether you’re reading on your own, leading your kids through the verses, or sharing them with friends, it’s a beautiful way to prepare your heart for Christmas.

Download your free Advent Bible reading plan today, and let this holiday season be a time to celebrate the birth of Christ with purpose, joy and peace!

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Don’t miss this post with free Advent printables for children:

8 Simple Christmas traditions to bring your family closer (plus 2 FREE printables)

And don’t miss these 5-minute Christmas family devotion books as well!

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