Stacey A. Shannon is a freelance journalist and blogger who has been published internationally. She's also a Christian, a wife and a mom of two school-aged children. She started Families with Grace in 2019 to encourage Christian moms as they create homes filled with grace, love and faith.
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An honest review of The Message Women’s Devotional Bible and why it’s a great choice for encouragement and spiritual growth
I’ve been a fan of study Bibles from the time I was a teenager. Devotional Bibles, however, are newer to me — and as a busy mom I’m quite loving them for my daily quiet time.
Over the past couple of years, I’ve explored a range of women’s Bibles — from the “ESV Women’s Study Bible” to the “She Reads Truth CSB”.
But when I picked up “The Message Women’s Devotional Bible,” it felt like the perfect blend of study depth and devotional encouragement. It’s easily the best women’s devotional Bible I’ve looked at.
Mom life is busy, so I especially appreciate Biblical resources that help me grow in my relationship with God in easy, concise ways.
I received a copy of “The Message Women’s Devotional Bible” at no charge in exchange for providing a review and social media posts about it. All opinions, however, are completely my own and not influenced by the free copy.
What is a devotional Bible?
If you’re not sure what sets a devotional Bible apart, here’s the quick breakdown.
Regular Bibles contain just the Biblical text in a specific translation.
Study Bibles add background notes, historical context, detailed maps and commentary to help you dig deeper into God’s Word.
Devotional Bibles combine the best of both — the complete Biblical text plus devotionals, reflection questions and other tools to help you apply Scripture to your everyday life.
Some devotional Bibles lean heavily on inspiration. Others, like “The Message Women’s Devotional Bible,” balance encouragement with solid teaching, making it both uplifting and practical.
Because this edition is built on The Message translation, the language is fresh, modern and easy to understand, which is perfect for quick daily readings or longer reflection time.
First impressions
The cover design of “The Message Women’s Devotional Bible” is straightforward and clean. I got the terracotta leather-look edition. The front includes a gold triangle overlaid with a circle.
To me, this represents the Holy Trinity in a simple way. The Bible is also available in hard cover and paperback with a cream cover featuring a watercolor landscape.
The Bible, which was released Aug. 5, 2025 by NavPress, includes 320 personal reflections from Christian women.
Each devotional study coincides with a passage of the Bible and helps women in all stages of life apply Biblical principles in their own spiritual journey.
The graphic design throughout the Bible stays with the terracotta theme and color scheme in a minimalist, clean way that’s easy to read.
Along with the devotionals, “The Message Women’s Devotional Bible” includes a variety of character profiles for both men and women of the Bible.
What makes this the best women’s devotional Bible
Besides the basics and background information, what truly sets this Bible apart is its heart. The authors begin with introducing the Bible and their vision for it.
Their goal is not to rewrite the Word of God or take away from what is in the Bible. It is, however, to make the text more applicable to women and highlight the role women played in Biblical times. All the supplemental content is written by women for other women.
For a variety of reasons, including its place in history, the Bible is strongly patriarchal and male-dominated. The authors set out to address how women fit in and how much a God who let some horrible things happen to women in Bible times (and now) is One who loves them so completely.
What I appreciate most is the lack of platitudes. There is a deep-dive into topics. In fact, some of the devotionals are noted for being a possible trigger for women who have experienced various traumas.
Deep spiritual insights
In the truth of God’s Word, we see a lot of horrible things as well as a lot of good ones. Esther, for example, is my favorite book of the Bible and one of my favorite women in the Bible.
I’ve studied the book and its characters many times. I’ve taught Bible studies about Esther and written children’s curriculum about Esther.
Yet, “The Message Women’s Devotional Bible” included insights I’d not previously considered. We often dismiss King Xerxes’ first queen, Vashti, as being a mere blip in the story. However, she’s more than that. She was a strong woman in the Bible by her own right.
Vashti refused to be objectified by her drunk husband and his friends. She knew she’d be banished (or executed), but made the decision anyway, standing on her own principles.
And thankfully she did so to make the way for Esther to become queen and save the Jewish people. Esther was incredibly courageous in risking her life to save her people. We cannot dispute that. But would she have had any amount of courage to do so without the example of Queen Vashti standing up for herself? Maybe. Maybe not.
Yet, as the story progresses, we also take a closer look at Esther through a lens that is seldom talked about:
“People often read the book of Esther like a fairy tale in which she is chosen by the king to live happily ever after, but the reality is that Esther was a victim of sexual and racial abuse. She lived at the mercy of one of the most powerful kings in history and the patriarchal assumption that women were designed for the purpose of sexually pleasing powerful men.
“When we think about Esther’s story, we must consider the nuanced layers of conflict. Esther was pulled between two cultures and pushed by powerful men to submit but somehow maintained a purity of heart that held its own power.”
The Message Women’s Devotional Bible
These are the kind of deeper insights that help women form a deeper connection to their God and their faith. We’re left with our own reflection questions: do we have enough faith and trust in God to stand up to injustice like Vashti and Esther?
Easy to read and understand
Another reason this is the best women’s devotional Bible for Christian moms in particular is that The Message translation is the easiest mainstream translation to understand. So if you are trying to get in Bible reading and devotion time in 10 spare minutes, you need to absorb and consume as much as possible.
Beyond just reading Scripture in a Bible app, “The Message Women’s Devotional Bible” offers a translation that is easy to read alongside character profiles and devotions that are simple and impactful. It can help mamas make the most of their devotional time when devotional time is limited.
Every two or three pages of this Bible is a devotion, character profile, section introduction, book introduction or other insight to help make understanding the Bible and applying its message to everyday life.
My final thoughts
I expected to like this devotional Bible for women, but I didn’t expect to love it as much as I do. I had to literally make myself stop reading the other day so I didn’t miss a deadline and got back to work.
Anything that helps me draw closer to God through His Word is a resource I love. I’m an avid reader anyway. This felt more like reading for fun than for spiritual reasons, yet I was spiritually blessed through reading.
This isn’t just another devotional that will sit on your shelf; it’s a resource that will genuinely transform your daily walk with God.
Buy it for yourself. Buy it as a gift. Or do both!
Encouraging Bible verses and practical wisdom for Christian moms
Motherhood is both the most rewarding and most challenging job we’ll ever have. As a mom, I’ve experienced some of the best moments and some of the worst moments of my life.
Just last week, for example, I had a great evening with my 15-year-old daughter shopping for a first day of school outfit. But I also had an evening of frustration when chores weren’t getting done by either kiddo.
We go from marveling at our children’s beautiful hearts to questioning every parenting decision we’ve ever made in minutes sometimes.
Add in the weight of being a Christian mom and raising children in the modern world, and, quite frankly, it can be overwhelming. Know that you’re not alone.
In fact, it’s for these very reasons that I put together a free monthlong study about grace-filled parenting. The truth is God didn’t create us to parent on empty and feel overwhelmed. We can lean into His patience, wisdom and love.
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Being a mom with grace isn’t about being a perfect mom (because she doesn’t exist!). It’s about showing up as present, faithful mothers who rely on God’s strength, extend grace to our children and ourselves, and trust in His wisdom for the important job of raising human beings who will impact the world for His glory.
It’s a style of parenting that works whether you have younger or older children.
I’d love for you to go on this journey with me with four weeks of practical, grace-soaked truth, one mom talking to another, chocolate optional, Spirit essential. Ready? Let’s dive in together.
Weekly themes for the Grace-Filled Parenting Bible study
Grace-Filled Parenting is divided into four different weeks with their own themes. And the best thing about this study is it’s rooted in Biblical principles and is created for mamas like you (and me) who don’t have hours a day for quiet time.
Each week has a Bible reading plan with one to three verses per day, reflection questions, a short video and optional emails. The Christian Moms with Grace private Facebook group will also be home to the study for discussions and more.
Encouragement + discussion in our private FB group
Free printables each week
Weekly Zoom call for connection & prayer
Week 1: Living faithfully as a mom
Before we get into parenting techniques or how we speak to our children, we need to start with something even more foundational: our own faith. This first week is all about resetting our hearts and realigning with God. We’re not doing this out of guilt, but because He is our source.
As moms, we often pour ourselves out without pausing to be filled up. But a grace-filled home starts with a mom who is anchored in Christ.
Living faithfully doesn’t mean we never have hard parenting days or moments of failure. Instead, it means we clothe ourselves “with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience” (Colossians 3:12, ESV) as we navigate the beautiful chaos of motherhood.
When we’re exhausted from sleepless nights or dealing with challenging behaviors, it’s easy to react from our flesh rather than the Spirit. But as Christian parents, we have access to supernatural love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23, ESV).
During this week, we’ll take a look at what living faithfully as a Christian mom in daily life really means, how to pursue spiritual growth while raising kids and how God equips us even in the mundane and ordinary moments of motherhood.
This week isn’t about doing more. It’s about coming back to the heart of why we mother the way we do. Because when we live rooted in God’s Word, everything else begins to shift with grace.
Week 2: Speaking life over your children
As moms, our words carry incredible weight. From cheering on our kids to correcting them mid-tantrum, how we speak becomes part of their inner voice. This week, we’re focusing on the power of our words — not just what we say to our children, but how we speak about them, over them and even to ourselves.
God calls us to speak life with both grace and truth. That means we don’t ignore misbehavior or hard moments, but we approach them from a place of love and wisdom, not frustration or fear. It also means extending that same grace to ourselves when we don’t get it right.
This week, we’ll explore what Scripture says about the tongue, encouragement, blessing and gentleness. And we’ll learn how to reflect the heart of our Heavenly Father through our everyday communication.
We’ll be reminded that our words can build up or tear down, and we’ll ask God to help us become moms who are intentional with how we speak, choosing words that plant seeds of faith, identity, and love in our children’s hearts.
Week 3: Discipling your children daily
Teaching our kids about Jesus doesn’t have to mean daily devotionals or elaborate object lessons. While those can be wonderful, everyday discipleship is more often about how we live than what we say.
It’s the rhythms of our home, the conversations at bedtime, the way we handle stress and the example we set in our own faith walk.
This week, we’ll take a closer look at what it means to disciple our children in the daily moments like driving to school, folding laundry or navigating another round of sibling arguments.
God hasn’t asked us to be perfect moms with Pinterest-worthy faith routines. He’s asked us to be faithful, to model trust and to bring our kids along as we follow Him.
As we dig into these verses, we’ll be encouraged to sow truth into our kids’ lives in small, consistent ways — not with pressure or perfection, but with presence, intention and grace.
Week 4: Trusting God with your parenting journey
No matter how much we plan, pray and prepare, parenting will always bring uncertainty. There are seasons of fear, moments of regret and questions we can’t answer.
But one of the important things to remember is our children belong first to God. And we can trust Him with their hearts, their futures and even our shortcomings.
This week is about surrender. It’s about letting go of the unrealistic expectations we place on ourselves and choosing to believe that God is faithful, even when we feel like we’re failing.
We’ll reflect on verses that remind us of His presence, His provision and His promises for our children and for us as moms. Whether you’re in a joyful season or walking through difficulty, these Scriptures will point you back to the One who sees, sustains and equips you.
This isn’t a passive trust. It’s an active choice to parent from peace rather than fear. And it’s the beautiful reminder that while motherhood can feel like a heavy responsibility, it’s also a sacred partnership with a God who never leaves us to figure it out alone.
What grace-filled parenting looks like in real life
You don’t need to overhaul your entire life or start a brand-new routine to practice grace-filled parenting. In fact, the beauty is the gift of grace meets you right where you are from the carpool line, to the kitchen, to the middle of a meltdown.
Here are a few small but powerful ways you can start shifting your home toward grace — one moment at a time:
Start your day with God — even if it’s short.
A few quiet minutes before the chaos starts can set your heart in the right direction. Ask God to help you see your kids through His eyes today and respond with His love, not just your own exhaustion.
Pause before you react.
When your child pushes every button, pause and ask, “What does this moment need—correction, connection, or simply calm?” Sometimes a hug speaks louder than a lecture.
Speak truth over your kids and yourself.
It’s easy to focus on what’s going wrong, but grace helps us call out what’s good. Tell your child, “I love how you care for your sister,” or “God made you such a thoughtful leader.” Let that same truth reflect back on you, too.
Protect your margin.
When you’re rushing from one thing to the next, grace is the first thing to go. Make room for slow moments, silly moments and soul-filling moments. They matter more than the to-do list.
Give yourself grace, too.
You will mess up. You will lose your temper. And you will forget something important. Being a perfect parent just isn’t possible.
But God’s grace doesn’t run out and every misstep is a chance to model humility, repentance and fresh starts.
Grace-filled parenting doesn’t mean you always get it right. It means you’re learning to parent from a place of peace, not pressure and inviting God into the process.
10 Powerful Bible verses for grace-filled parenting
These Scriptures are a beautiful reminder that we don’t have to parent in our own strength. When we root ourselves in God’s Word and lean into the grace of His Son, we find the patience, peace and wisdom we so often long for.
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.”
Galatians 5:22-23 (ESV)
When your patience wears thin before breakfast, remember: these qualities aren’t something you have to force. They’re the fruit of walking closely with God. Ask the Spirit to produce His fruit in you today. You don’t have to rely on your own natural storehouse of wisdom.
“Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.”
Colossians 3:12-14 (ESV)
Grace in parenting doesn’t mean letting everything slide. It means showing up clothed in Christ’s character.
Showing grace to your children isn’t a sign of personal weakness. As He has given you complete forgiveness, you can also forgive, correct and lead your children with love.
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
Ephesians 4:29 (NIV)
Your words matter; they shape your children’s hearts in profound ways.
Even when discipline is needed, you can speak with grace, truth and intention to build your child up instead of tearing them down.
“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”
Proverbs 22:6 (NIV)
You’re planting seeds that may not bloom right away into immediate success in the lives of your children. You must trust the process — even when progress feels slow — and keep pointing kids toward truth.
You serve a God of perfect wisdom and can trust in His timing, even when it doesn’t necessarily match your own. God’s delivery time is always the right time.
“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain. It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep.”
Psalm 127:1-2 (ESV)
You’re not meant to carry the whole weight of your child’s future. Do your part, but rest knowing God is the one building your family and watching over your children.
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV)
Motherhood is exhausting. Jesus doesn’t ask you to hold it all together. He invites you to come to Him and find rest in His strength, not your own.
As God’s child, you are able to cling to Him and rest in Him.
“He will tend his flock like a shepherd; he will gather the lambs in his arms; he will carry them in his bosom, and gently lead those that are with young.”
Isaiah 40:11 (ESV)
What a beautiful picture of how God tends to mothers! You’re not leading your children alone. God sees you, carries you and gently leads moms like you through every stage and struggle.
The work of God is done in your life simply by being His beloved daughter doing her best to live for Him. Thankfully, you don’t have to have an independent ability to be a Christian parent. None of us would succeed!
“In the same manner the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.”
Romans 8:26 (NIV)
In those moments when you don’t even know what to pray for your children or yourself, the Spirit steps in.
The good news is you don’t have to figure out everything on your own. God’s Spirit is actively helping you in your weakness.
“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”
Philippians 1:6 (ESV)
God isn’t finished — not with you, and not with your kids. When you feel like a failure or worry about your children’s spiritual growth, you can rest in knowing that God is committed to completing the good work He’s started in each of your lives.
Grace means trusting that He’s working, even when you can’t see the results yet. His invisible grace is there to sustain you along the journey.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)
Grace-filled parenting ultimately comes down to trust. God knows your child even better than you do, and He will guide your steps as you walk with Him.
You can trust God’s plan for your family is good, even when you can’t see the bigger picture. You trust His timing is perfect, even when progress seems slow.
And you can definitely trust He loves your children more than you do and will guide your path as you seek to honor Him.
Join the Grace-Filled Parenting journey
These verses are a beautiful reminder that you don’t have to parent from pressure or perfectionism but from the grace God freely gives. If you’re ready to take that truth and walk it out in your everyday life as a Christian mom, I’ve got something special just for you.
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This printable devotional is designed to help you:
Reset your mindset as a mom
Reflect on God’s truth in the middle of everyday chaos
Parent with more peace, purpose and confidence in Christ
Each day includes a short Scripture, a heartfelt reflection and space to connect with God in a real and practical way. It’s perfect whether you’ve got 10 quiet minutes or you’re squeezing in grace on the go.
You’ll get instant access to the devotional and be the first to hear when the full Grace-Filled Parenting study begins in September!
Be part of the free Grace-Filled Parenting study
This September, I’m inviting Christian moms to join me for a 4-week journey that will refresh your soul and reframe how you approach motherhood.
We’ll cover:
Living faithfully as a mom
Speaking life with grace and truth
Discipling our kids through everyday moments
Trusting God with the big and small of parenting
You’ll get weekly encouragement, Scripture-based reflections and optional journal prompts plus access to a printable upgrade and a community of moms walking through it with you.
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Keep showing up, mama
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t need a perfect track record or a picture-perfect routine.
What matters most is that you’re walking with God and pointing your children toward Him one moment, one prayer, one imperfect day at a time.
Grace-filled parenting isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about staying rooted in the One who does.
So when you feel tired, uncertain or like you’ve missed the mark again, pause, breathe and remember: God chose you to be your child’s mom on purpose.
You’re doing holy work, even when it’s a hard parenting day. Keep going. Keep trusting. And most of all, keep showing up — covered in grace.
Back to school can be exciting, overwhelming and emotional — sometimes all before 9 a.m.
If you’re a mom trying to juggle drop-off schedules, supply lists, earlier bedtimes and maybe even your own work responsibilities, you’re not alone.
I’ve been there (still am there!), and I want to share some of the back to school tips that have helped our family navigate the start of a new school year with a little more peace and a lot more grace.
Whether you’ve got littles starting preschool or big kids heading into high school, these 20 practical and faith-filled tips are for you — from one real-life mom to another.
1. Practice lunchbox skills before day one
If your child is new to packing a lunch or hasn’t used certain containers before, take a little time to practice. Let them open their lunchbox, unzip their sandwich bag and open any tricky containers.
What’s second nature to us as adults might trip up a 5-year-old at a crowded lunch table. Plus, practicing now can save them frustration and help them feel more independent when the first lunch bell rings.
Also be sure to have them try things like opening milk cartons (if possible; these are harder to find!) and putting straws in juice boxes.
2. Ease into early wake-ups a few days at a time
If your summer mornings have been slow or even a bit slower than usual, gradually shifting back to earlier wake-ups will make the start of school easier.
Begin with setting alarms 30 minutes earlier each day in the week (or two!) leading up to school. This gentle transition helps reset their internal clocks without making that first school morning feel like a rude awakening.
It also gives you a chance to troubleshoot your own routine before it really counts. And, if your own schedule has been different, this allows your internal clock to reset as well.
3. Use a simple spreadsheet to track school supplies
I love spreadsheets. My latest obsession is AirTable, which takes spreadsheets to a whole new level. (Absolutely no affiliation with them. I just love them!)
Instead of relying on memory or digging through plastic bags every time you get home from Target, create a basic spreadsheet or phone note. List each item your child needs and check them off as you buy them.
You’ll save money by not doubling up and sanity by not second-guessing what you’ve already purchased. It also helps if you’re shopping for multiple kids or need to split up supply gathering with your spouse or older child.
Because school supply lists are often specific and, especially in elementary, can have overlapping supplies, spreadsheets just make organizing them all that much easier.
I even use a second page in the spreadsheet to track other things we need like backpacks, lunch containers, clothes, etc.
4. Shift bedtime gradually for everyone
Back to school means early mornings, so adjusting bedtimes is just as important. About a week before school starts, start backing up bedtime by 15 to 30 minutes each night.
Your kids might resist it, especially the older ones, but even just turning off devices and dimming the lights can help their bodies start winding down.
And just like with getting up earlier, it’s worth shifting your own bedtime too. Running on caffeine alone doesn’t count as self-care.
5. Create a “launch pad” near the door
Designate a spot by the door where backpacks, shoes, water bottles and school devices go. You can use a basket, a bench, a corner, a countertop or whatever.
Everything for school having a home near the door you exit will cut down on the morning chaos of misplaced items and last-minute scavenger hunts.
It also gives kids a small sense of responsibility as they learn to pack and unpack on their own. Bonus: It helps you feel more organized, even when the rest of the day is a blur.
6. Do a dry run of the morning routine
A couple of days before school starts, walk through your morning as if it’s the real thing. Set alarms, get dressed, eat breakfast, pack bags and time how long it all takes.
This helps everyone, including you, ease into the new rhythm and identify any problem areas (like realizing someone’s favorite hoodie is still in the washer).
It’s a low-stress way to set your family up for a smoother first day. You can also use it as an excuse to actually head out the door for some early errands or a doughnut trip.
7. Walk older kids through their new schedule
If your child is in middle or high school, try to walk the halls with them (or let them do it solo) before the first day.
Our school has an open house for all grades the week school starts. This is a great time to let them find their locker, locate their classrooms and get a feel for the flow.
Even if they say they’re fine, a little preparation can quiet some of those unspoken nerves. For kids who worry about the “what ifs,” this small step can make a big difference in their confidence.
Plus for kids like my daughter who is into aesthetics and organizing, it gives them a chance to set up their locker ahead of time rather than lugging all the supplies for it in on the first day.
8. Talk through first-day expectations
Sit down and talk through what the first day will look like. Cover everything from what time they need to wake up to how pickup works at the end of the day.
Go over things like what to pack for lunch, where they’ll wait for the bus or how they’ll find their classroom. Talk with them about what to do if they get lost, confused or have trouble.
Knowing the plan reduces anxiety for everyone. And if something does go off-plan (because it probably will), they’ll feel more prepared to adjust.
9. Build a grab-and-go snack station
Set up a basket or bin with school-approved and mom-approved snacks your kids can easily grab for their lunchboxes or after-school hunger.
Our basket includes granola bars, peanut butter crackers, breadsticks and cheese, fruit snacks and applesauce. Pick whatever works for your crew.
Having a dedicated snack station also helps avoid the endless “What can I eat?” question that seems to hit at 3:30 every day. And if your kids are packing or helping pack lunch, they have a go-to spot to grab from.
10. Start praying together about the school year
Find a time to pray together for the upcoming year. You can do this at breakfast, bedtime or whatever works naturally for your family.
Pray for their teachers, their classmates and for them to shine God’s love in whatever comes their way.
And don’t forget to pray for yourself for patience, peace and wisdom as you guide them through a new season.
These prayers not only speak to the heart of the Father, they remind your children and you that they aren’t going into the school year alone.
The first week back can feel like a blur, so do yourself a favor and have a few go-to meals ready to go. Make a double batch of something simple like chili, baked pasta or muffins and freeze half.
You’ll thank yourself when dinnertime rolls around and you don’t have the energy to cook from scratch. Even frozen pancakes for breakfast can be a big win on a rushed morning.
Be sure to give yourself grace along the way as well. If you don’t want to cook ahead and freeze, plan easy meals your family likes that don’t take too much energy or thought.
As soon as you get that school email or paper calendar, plug all the key dates into your digital or paper planner. Things like early dismissals, school picture day, parent-teacher nights and holidays can sneak up fast.
Having them on your radar now helps you plan ahead (and not be the only mom who forgets pajama day). It’s a small habit that makes a big difference.
Don’t forget to share important dates with grandparents or other family and friends as well. As soon as I have concert dates and such, I pass that information along as well.
13. Set up a low-key homework station
You don’t need a full-blown homeschool room (though that’s great if you do!). You really just a spot with good lighting, basic supplies and limited distractions.
A corner of the kitchen table, a lap desk on the couch or a shelf in their bedroom can work. Having a consistent place to do homework helps kids mentally shift into “focus mode.”
It also cuts down on the nightly scavenger hunt for pencils and glue sticks. During our time with e-learning, we used shoe boxes wrapped in wrapping paper to hold supplies. We’ve also just had a school box in a kitchen drawer that has pencils, glue sticks, scissors and such.
14. Start a family verse or motto for the year
Choose a Bible verse or short phrase to be your family’s anchor for the school year. Post it somewhere visible like on the fridge, a chalkboard or the bathroom mirror.
Refer back to it when someone has a hard day or when you need a reminder of God’s faithfulness. It’s a simple way to keep your focus on what matters most.
Consider one of these:
Joshua 1:9 – “Be strong and courageous… for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”
James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God… and it will be given to you.”
Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind and compassionate to one another…”
1 Thessalonians 5:11 – “Encourage one another and build each other up…”
Proverbs 3:5-6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart…”
Colossians 2:6-7 – “Continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up…”
Philippians 4:6-7 – “Do not be anxious about anything… and the peace of God… will guard your hearts.”
Those first few weeks back can be a whirlwind of forms, events, new routines and emotional shifts. Plan for quiet evenings or even a low-key weekend at home to give everyone a chance to reset.
Kids need the margin, and honestly, so do we. It doesn’t have to be fancy — a movie night, a lazy Saturday breakfast or just skipping one more thing on the calendar is enough.
We try to keep activities on that first weekend especially low-key. Nobody is up for anything big.
16. Talk about friendship and kindness
Remind your kids that being kind, inclusive and respectful matters just as much as grades. Encourage them to notice classmates who are left out, be a friend to someone new and use their words to build others up.
These little conversations plant seeds that will shape how your child interacts with the world. As we model kindness to our children, we can see them do the same with those around them.
Also have conversations about friends in regards to identifying a good friend and knowing when to keep a classmate as more of an acquaintance than a friend.
These issues popped us for our kiddos by first grade and continue now into middle and high school.
17. Take time to grieve the season shift
It’s OK if you feel emotional when school starts. My kids are in middle and high school and I still have back-to-school blues each year.
So whether your baby is heading to kindergarten or your teen is driving off alone or anywhere in between, give yourself some grace for your own feelings.
The shift from summer to school can bring up unexpected feelings. Let yourself process them without guilt. Grief and gratitude can coexist — and both are normal.
18. Make a back-to-school playlist
Let each family member choose a song and create a playlist you can play during the first-day drive or breakfast. It’s a fun and easy tradition that adds a little joy to the morning.
You might find that “your song” becomes part of the rhythm of the year. Music has a way of grounding us and lifting our moods.
My family has a playlist on Spotify that we call “Car Music.” It’s had songs added and taken away through the years that include a variety of each of our favorites.
19. Do a family “summer wins” recap
Before diving headfirst into school mode, take a moment to reflect on what made summer sweet. Talk about your favorite memories, things you learned or moments you want to remember.
It’s a great way to close one season with gratitude before stepping into the next one. You could even write them down and tuck them into a jar for later.
This is also a great time to assess whether you’ve missed something you really wanted to do over the summer. Get it in before the first day if you can!
Another bonus to this is that it helps your kids remember the fun they really did have throughout the summer months.
20. Choose a consistent and simple after-school rhythm
The hours right after school can get chaotic fast: backpacks get dumped, emotions run high and snacks disappear like magic. Decide now what you want that time to look like.
Whether it’s 10 minutes of quiet time, a quick “How was your day?” check-in or a simple snack-and-homework routine, a little structure goes a long way. Your after-school rhythm doesn’t need to be rigid — just intentional.
We’ve found that one kiddo needs a bit of quiet in the car right after school to decompress from the day. The other likes to talk about their day a bit more. Do what works best for you and your kiddos.
Back to school doesn’t have to mean back to chaos. With a little bit of planning and a whole lot of grace, you can step into this new season with peace and purpose.
These tips aren’t about perfection. They’re about showing up for your family and trusting God to meet you there, even on the hard mornings.
You’re not alone in this. And I’m cheering you on every step of the way!
Sometimes, I wish life had a reset button. Not the kind that erases everything, but the kind that helps me slow down, catch my breath and get back on track, especially in the busy seasons of motherhood.
The truth is, whether you’re knee-deep in laundry, wrestling through anxious thoughts or feeling spiritually dry, your heart might be whispering: “I need a reset.”
If you’ve been there, mama, you’re not alone. I’ve felt that way more times than I can count—like I’m going through the motions but missing the presence of the Lord in my everyday life.
The beautiful truth is that God, in His grace, specializes in renewal. Throughout Scripture, we see stories of people who encountered the grace of a divine reset not because they had it all together, but because they turned back to Him with weary hearts.
From the people of Israel during the Babylonian exile to Jesus Christ’s own disciples, the Bible is full of people who found a fresh start through God’s Word and the power of the Holy Spirit.
If you’re in a season where you feel scattered, distracted or spiritually dry, this post is for you. Let’s explore what it looks like to experience a Biblical reset and how you can begin again—right where you are.
(Find the link for the free 4-week Bible reading plan and refresh challenge at the end of the post!)
What does it mean to reset spiritually?
A spiritual reset isn’t about performing or proving anything to God. It’s not about starting from scratch or “being better.”
Instead, it’s about realigning your heart with God’s presence and allowing His truth to wash over your soul like clean water.
In Romans 12:2, we’re reminded not to conform to the patterns of this world, but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. That’s where the spiritual reset begins. It isn’t in our schedules or checklists, but in our thoughts, attitudes and identity as part of the body of Christ.
Sometimes a reset is subtle like a whisper from the Holy Spirit to spend more time with Jesus Christ. Other times, it’s a wake-up call to turn from unhealthy habits or negative mindsets and refocus our routines.
In either case, the Spirit leads us not through shame, but through gentle conviction and love.
God doesn’t demand perfection; He invites us into something better. A new beginning. A fresh perspective. A clean heart made soft again.
That’s the kind of reset Scripture promises, and it’s available to every believer who seeks the kingdom of God with sincere faith.
The prophet Isaiah reminds us that God is always doing a new thing, even when we can’t see it. He specializes in times of refreshing for His people, offering spiritual growth and transformation that goes far beyond our own strength.
A journey to spiritual renewal
Let’s go deeper into a Biblical approach to finding your reset. This isn’t about adding more to your already full plate—it’s about creating space for God to do His good work in your heart.
Renew your mind
Let’s be honest: our minds are noisy. Between social media, world events and internal stress, it’s no wonder we find ourselves filled with anxious thoughts or self-doubt. That’s why the first reset starts in our minds.
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”
Romans 12:2 (NIV)
In practical terms, this means we stop allowing the world to shape how we think and start letting God’s Word shape our perspective on earthly things.
When was the last time you paused to examine your thought life? Are your thoughts life-giving or draining? Do they draw you closer to God or do they pull you deeper into fear or comparison?
Here’s what I’ve found: when I start my day—even just five minutes—with Scripture or a quiet prayer, it sets the tone for everything else.
This doesn’t have to be really deep and involved. Even just praying while I brush my teeth or reading my Bible while I eat breakfast makes a difference.
That daily reset helps me shift my focus from what’s going wrong to what is eternally right. It’s a simple way to invite God’s presence into the ordinary moments of motherhood.
The Apostle Paul understood this struggle. In 2 Corinthians 10:5, he encourages us to take every thought captive to make it obedient to Christ Jesus.
This isn’t about perfect thinking. It’s about choosing to align our minds with Biblical truth rather than the negative mindsets that can so easily take hold.
Verses to reflect on:
(Note: The following verses are part of the 31-day free Bible reading plan about what a reset in the Bible looks like. These are summaries of the verses and not the actual text.)
Romans 12:1-2 – Be transformed by the renewing of your mind
Isaiah 26:3 – Perfect peace for those whose minds are stayed on God
Philippians 4:6-7 – Replace worry with prayer and receive God’s peace
2 Corinthians 10:5 – Take every thought captive to make it obedient to Christ
Psalm 139:23-24 – Ask God to search your heart and know your anxious thoughts
Try this:
Write down a verse that encourages you and tape it to your mirror or phone lock screen. Let that be your go-to reset button when your mind starts spiraling.
Consider using the YouVersion Bible app to receive daily verses that can serve as gentle reminders throughout your day.
Rebuild your rhythms
If life has thrown your routines out the window, you’re not alone. Our family schedule in July looked nothing like it did in April—or what it will look like in September.
And that’s OK. But now is the perfect time to rebuild spiritual rhythms that can carry you through the next season.
“Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.”
Psalm 90:12 (NIV)
There’s something holy about being intentional with our time, even in the small pockets. A spiritual reset doesn’t require hours of Bible study. It might be a quick devotional while your coffee brews or a prayer whispered while packing lunches.
The key is to connect with God regularly, even in simple ways. We’re not aiming for perfection. We’re aiming for His presence!
As human beings created for relationship with our Heavenly Father, we need these consistent touchpoints with the Almighty God who loves us.
A huge part of spiritual growth is learning that God meets us in the mundane moments of our own life. Whether you’re a new mom struggling to find time or a seasoned mother juggling multiple schedules, God’s original design includes rhythm and rest.
Start the day with one verse and a breath prayer like, “God, You are with me”
Listen to worship music during chores or carpool
Invite your kids into your time with God, even if it’s messy
Use a simple Bible reading plan that fits your current season
Key verses to explore:
(Note: The following verses are part of the 31-day free Bible reading plan about what a reset in the Bible looks like. These are summaries of the verses and not the actual text.)
Psalm 90:12 – Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom
Luke 5:15-16 – Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed
Mark 1:35 – Jesus got up early to pray in a solitary place
Matthew 11:28-30 – Come to me and I will give you rest
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 – Pray continually and give thanks in all circumstances
Ideas to try:
Start the day with one verse and a breath prayer like, “God, You are with me”
Listen to worship music during chores or carpool
Invite your kids into your time with God, even if it’s messy
The goal isn’t to create a Pinterest-worthy quiet time. It’s to build small, sustainable moments of connection and watch how those moments add up to something beautiful over time.
Reconnect with God’s presence
There are days when I look up and realize I’ve gone the entire day on autopilot. I’ve done all the things but forgotten to talk to God. I don’t say that with guilt; I say it with the honesty that sometimes life is loud, and we forget the One who gives us peace.
But here’s the beautiful truth: God never forgets us. His eyes are always upon us, and His presence never leaves us.
“You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.”
Psalm 16:11 (NIV)
That joy isn’t reserved for mountaintop experiences or perfect Bible studies. It’s available in the car line, the kitchen and in all the chaos of everyday motherhood.
The Holy Spirit doesn’t need a formal invitation—He’s already with you. The question is: are you aware?
This awareness of God’s presence can transform ordinary moments into sacred ones. It’s what makes the difference between just surviving our days and truly living with purpose.
Even in his busiest seasons of leading the people of Israel, King David (who wrote these words in Psalm 16) made space to acknowledge God’s presence. He understood that recognizing God in the midst of daily life wasn’t just a good thing; it was essential for his spiritual well-being.
Verses to meditate on:
(Note: The following verses are part of the 31-day free Bible reading plan about what a reset in the Bible looks like. These are summaries of the verses and not the actual text.)
Psalm 16:11 – In your presence there is fullness of joy
John 15:4-5 – Remain in me, as I also remain in you
Exodus 33:14 – My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest
Matthew 28:20 – I am with you always, to the very end of the age
Jeremiah 29:13 – You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart
Simple ways to reconnect:
Pause before switching tasks and say, “Thank You for being with me, God”
Turn ordinary moments (folding towels, walking the dog) into prayer moments
Keep a “God sighting” journal—where did you notice His hand today?
Practice gratitude for the small blessings that often go unnoticed
This week is about growing your awareness of God’s presence, not earning it. He’s already near. Just draw close, and watch how this simple shift can bring times of refreshing to your weary heart.
Recommit to growth
A reset is only powerful if we take steps forward afterward. That’s what the final week is all about: not just feeling refreshed, but living rooted in Christ Jesus for the long haul.
“So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.”
Colossians 2:6–7
Being rooted and built up in faith doesn’t mean our lives will be storm-free, but we will be anchored when the waves hit. Like a tree with deep roots, we can weather different seasons because our foundation is secure.
Verses to meditate on:
(Note: The following verses are part of the 31-day free Bible reading plan about what a reset in the Bible looks like. These are summaries of the verses and not the actual text.)
Colossians 2:6-7 – Continue to live your lives in Him, rooted and built up
Galatians 6:9 – Let us not become weary in doing good
2 Peter 1:5-8 – Add to your faith goodness, knowledge, self-control
Philippians 3:13-14 – Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead
John 15:8 – This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit
This week, take time to ask yourself:
What’s grown in me this month?
What habits do I want to carry forward?
Where is God calling me to trust Him more deeply?
How can I continue to bear much fruit in my spiritual walk?
God is always doing a new thing, but we have to be willing to release the old things to embrace it. Maybe that looks like letting go of guilt over missed quiet times. Maybe it’s forgiving yourself or someone else.
Maybe it’s simply showing up consistently in prayer, believing that your faithful God honors every step you take toward Him.
2 Corinthians 5:17 reminds us that in Christ, we are a new creation. The former things have passed away.
This doesn’t mean we forget our past, but we don’t let it define our future. We can recommit to growth knowing God’s mercies are new every morning.
Don’t look back with shame, dear mama. Look forward with hope, knowing the King of Kings has good plans for your life and your family.
A reset rooted in grace
If you’ve been feeling spiritually off, I want you to know this: you’re not too far gone, too distracted or too behind. God is ready and waiting to meet you right in the middle of your mess.
His love for you isn’t based on your performance; it’s based on His character.
There’s no fancy formula required. No “great reset” you need to pull off perfectly.
Just the simple act of turning your heart back to Him and trusting He will do the good work of transformation in His perfect timing.
Whether you’re dealing with major change in your life, processing difficult world events or simply feeling disconnected from your faith, remember God’s grace is sufficient.
He understands the challenges of being a mother in today’s world, and He sees your sincere desire to grow closer to Him.
This isn’t about comparing yourself to staff members at church or feeling like you need to measure up to some impossible standard.
This is about you and God, walking together in relationship as you experience His unfailing love in a fresh way.
Let this be your gentle invitation to start again. Whether that’s through daily Scripture reading, small prayers throughout your day or simply creating moments of stillness, know this: God honors every step you take toward Him.
Each prayer whispered, each verse read, each moment of gratitude offered, it all matters to your Heavenly Father.
Your next steps
If you’re ready to dig deeper into this journey of spiritual renewal, I’ve created a free 31-day Bible reading plan called Reset: A Spiritual Refresh for Moms. It’s designed to help you walk through these themes one day at a time, with no pressure, just grace.
This isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s about finding God in the midst of your real life and discovering that He’s been there all along, waiting with open arms and a heart full of love for you.
You don’t have to wait until the new year or until you have more time. You can start right now, right where you are. God is in the business of new beginnings, and today can be yours.
Let’s reset together, mama. Your weary heart deserves this gift of grace, and your family will benefit from the renewed woman of faith you’ll become as you draw closer to the heart of God.
Remember: you are loved, you are seen and you are not alone in this journey. The same God who created the entire world cares about the details of your daily life.
That’s the kind of personal, loving Father we serve—and that’s the foundation for every spiritual reset we’ll ever need.
Ready to begin your spiritual reset journey? Download the free 31-day Bible reading plan, “Reset: A Spiritual Refresh” with a daily challenge calendar and take the first step toward renewed faith today.
Take it a step further with the “Reset and Reflect Journal” to help you grow closer to God in just a few minutes a day.
How to embrace God’s gift of rest without guilt, even in the midst of motherhood’s demands
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 (NIV)
Let me guess. You’re reading this while folding laundry, waiting in the school pickup line or stealing a quiet moment after everyone’s finally asleep.
I see you, mama. You’re tired. You’re carrying heavy burdens. I am you!
And somewhere deep down, you’re probably wondering if true rest is even possible in this season of motherhood.
The good news? God’s invitation to rest isn’t just for women without children or those in easier seasons of life. It’s for you, right here, right now — even in the beautiful chaos of raising little ones and managing busy lives.
God’s heart for rest: more than just a good idea
“By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done.”
Genesis 2:2-3 (NIV)
When we look at Bible verses about rest, we quickly discover rest isn’t just a nice suggestion from God; it’s woven into the very fabric of how He created us to live. From the very beginning, God established a rhythm of work and rest.
Notice that God didn’t rest because He was tired. He rested to establish a pattern for us. The Sabbath Day was always meant to be a gift, not a burden.
Even before sin entered the world, God knew we would need regular rhythms of rest to thrive.
We need to get past the idea that rest is just for our own pleasure. The truth is, I’m a better mom when I am rested — physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
But sometimes, I struggle with the importance of rest. I love a to-do list. Checking off tasks makes me happy.
Add in the pressures and responsibilities of motherhood, marriage and working for myself and the concept of rest gets thrown out the window.
Usually during these times, I’m cranky. I get grumpy with my children and my husband — the very people I want to love most and treat the best.
My husband will often gently call me on this and encourage me to find a quiet place to just be still and rejuvenate my soul.
Sometimes it means he takes over kid duty completely (especially when they were little). Sometimes he just tells the kids I’m taking down time and leaves me in my bedroom with my book for an hour.
I always emerge from this resting place refilled and happier. Having a full day of rest is hard, yet smaller moments can make such a big difference.
Jesus’ invitation: Rest for weary souls
One of the most comforting Bible verses about rest comes directly from Jesus Himself:
“‘Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.'”
Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV)
We moms know what carrying heavy burdens feels like. The mental load of remembering everyone’s schedules, the emotional weight of your children’s struggles, the physical exhaustion of caring for everyone else’s needs — it’s overwhelming.
But Jesus offers something different: ultimate rest. He doesn’t just offer physical rest (though that’s important, too).
He offers rest for your soul. This is the kind of deep, spiritual rest that comes from knowing you don’t have to carry everything alone.
The peace of God that Jesus offers isn’t dependent on having a perfect schedule or getting eight hours of restful sleep.
It’s available right in the middle of the mess, in the quiet moments when you remember that He is carrying you.
Resting in God’s presence: Finding quiet in the chaos
“The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake.”
Psalm 23:1-3 (NIV)
King David, the author of these words, understood what it meant to find rest in God’s presence, even in difficult circumstances.
Notice the imagery here—green pastures and quiet waters. But here’s what I’ve learned: God can create those green pastures and quiet waters in your heart even when your house is loud and your day is full.
The truth is, I’ve found Sabbath rest in the quiet waters of the shower when I have a few moments to really connect with God. I’ve gotten true peace while driving to school pickup and singing along to praise music.
Sometimes resting in God’s presence looks like:
Whispering a prayer while you’re washing dishes
Taking three deep breaths and remembering He is with you during a toddler meltdown
Reading one verse on your phone while your coffee gets cold (again)
Choosing to see His provision in the small moments throughout your day
“This is what the Sovereign Lord, the Holy One of Israel, says: ‘In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength.'”
Isaiah 30:15 (NIV)
Our strength doesn’t come from doing more or trying harder. It comes from turning to God and trusting Him with our busy lives.
Rest from worry and fear: Casting your anxieties
One of the biggest barriers to rest for lots of us mamas is anxiety. We worry about our children’s safety, their future, whether we’re doing enough, whether we’re messing them up.
But God’s Word has so much to say about finding rest from these anxious thoughts, like the following Bible verses:
“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”
1 Peter 5:7 (NIV)
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV)
The peace of God isn’t something we have to manufacture or work up. It’s a gift that comes when we choose to bring our worries to Him instead of carrying them alone.
When your mind spirals with “what-ifs” about your children or your family, these Bible verses about rest can anchor your thoughts in truth.
A few years ago, I was spiraling out of control in my mind over my house. It sounds silly in the midst of all of life’s storms, but we were trying to sell our house and one thing after another stopped us.
I knew it was God’s will, and I trusted our Lord God had a better and different plan. Yet, my mind couldn’t stop seeing all the shortcomings in my home.
I was no longer content in a place where I spent the vast majority of my time. When my own ways of managing this anxiety didn’t work, I felt the Holy Spirit prompt me to thank God for this.
So I started saying a short prayer of thanks to God for keeping us where we needed to be every time my anxiety reared its head. At first, I was kind of resentful with my thanks, but it wasn’t long until I was sincere.
When we are thankful, our soul finds peace in God and anxiety has to flee.
Perfect peace comes not from having everything under control, but from keeping our minds focused on Him:
“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
Isaiah 26:3 (NIV)
Resting from striving and perfectionism
We also need rest from always striving. As moms, we struggle with feeling like we need to do it all perfectly. Social media doesn’t help—it’s easy to compare our messy reality with everyone else’s highlight reel.
But God calls us to rest from striving and perfectionism.
“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”
Ephesians 2:8-9 (NIV)
This verse isn’t just about salvation—it’s about how we live every day. We don’t have to earn God’s love through perfect parenting or flawless housekeeping. His love for us isn’t based on our performance.
“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”
Psalm 127:1a (NIV)
Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is acknowledge our limitations and rest in God’s strength instead of our own. When we try to “do it all,” we often rob ourselves of the peace God wants to give us.
A few weeks ago, I was in the middle of an unrested, overworked, striving-for-perfection moment. I got passive aggressive about having to do everything around my house.
My daughter piped up and reminded me that if I needed help, then I just needed to ask for it.
It seems simple, but so often we try to take everything on our shoulders, which we were never meant to do. Asking for help from your immediate family, friends, extended family or even someone you pay for services is OK. It doesn’t make you a failure.
In fact, it means you’re honoring God’s plan for your life and recognizing your God-given need for rest.
God’s strength in our weakness
One of my favorite Bible verses about rest speaks directly to those moments when we feel completely depleted:
“He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”
Isaiah 40:29-31 (NIV)
The Creator of the ends of the earth—the everlasting God who never grows tired—promises to give His strength to weary souls like us.
You don’t have to wait until you feel strong to serve your family well. God’s power is made perfect in our weakness.
“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”
2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)
In spite of what hustle culture and social media tell us about going nonstop, we must learn the value of rest as God created it for us. Lay your burdens down with Him, and give yourself grace when you cannot do all the things. You were never meant to!
Living a lifestyle of rest: Practical steps
So how do we actually live this out in the middle of busy lives? How do we move from reading about rest to actually experiencing it?
Here are some practical ways to embrace God’s invitation to rest:
Redefine what rest looks like right now
Rest in this season of motherhood might not look like a whole day with your feet up reading a book. Sometimes rest looks like ordering pizza for dinner and watching a movie with your family.
Sometimes it’s locking yourself in the bathroom for five minutes to pray and regroup. (Been there, done that on both fronts!)
Think about what brings you life and peace in small doses. Maybe it’s painting your nails after the kids are in bed, sitting on your front porch watching the sunset or listening to worship music while you cook dinner.
Find small pockets of rest throughout your day
Most of us can’t manage an entire Sabbath of solemn rest, but we can find small moments throughout our day. Look for those quiet moments.
Maybe while you’re waiting in the car, during naptime (if your kids still nap!) or in those few minutes before everyone else wakes up.
I’ve learned that being intentional about what I do during these small pockets of time makes a huge difference. Instead of mindlessly scrolling social media, I might read a devotional, listen to a worship song, read a book or simply sit quietly and reflect.
Create boundaries that protect your rest
Jesus himself set boundaries. He often withdrew from the crowds to pray and rest. Setting limits isn’t selfish — it’s necessary for sustainable ministry to our families.
This might mean saying no to good opportunities that would overwhelm your schedule or setting realistic expectations for what you can accomplish in a day. Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup.
We’ve set different boundaries at different stages of our children’s lives to protect their rest and ours. For example, in elementary school, each was only allowed to do one recurring extracurricular activity at a time.
Now they are older as a tween and teen, so they have a few more activities. But ours has intentionally never been a family who is constantly go-go-going everywhere.
Embrace the tried-and-true
“This is what the Lord says: ‘Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.'”
Jeremiah 6:16a (NIV)
Sometimes finding rest means getting back to basics of the tried-and-true paths God’s people have walked for generations. Regular prayer, reading God’s Word, keeping Sabbath rhythms (even if imperfectly) and gathering with other believers aren’t just religious activities—they’re pathways to the soul rest Jesus promised.
So many times I’ve been restored just by maintaining these habits to help me connect with God and find a place of rest for even a few minutes.
Rest as an act of faith
Choosing to rest — especially when there’s always more to do — is actually an act of faith.
It’s saying, “I trust that God is big enough to handle what I can’t get done today.” It’s acknowledging that the world doesn’t depend on our constant productivity.
“In vain you rise early and stay up late, toiling for food to eat—for he grants sleep to those he loves.”
Psalm 127:2 (NIV)
God wants to grant you beloved sleep and soul rest, not because you’ve earned it, but because He loves you. Rest isn’t a reward.
A gentle reminder: You’re not failing
If you’re reading this and feeling guilty about how little rest you actually get or how hard it is to find quiet moments with God, please hear this: you’re not failing.
Motherhood is hard. Some seasons are harder than others.
God sees your heart, your desire to know Him better and your love for your family.
Start small. Choose one Bible verse about rest to meditate on this week. Look for one small pocket of time to connect with God. Ask Him to help you see opportunities for rest that you might be missing.
Remember, the Lord of peace Himself wants to give you peace at all times and in every way. This isn’t about adding another item to your to-do list. It’s about receiving the gift of rest that God offers.
“Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you.”
2 Thessalonians 3:16 (NIV)
Your next step: A month of rest
If this resonates with your heart and you’d like some guidance in making rest a more regular part of your routine, I’ve created a free reading plan focused on finding rest in God.
It includes Bible verses and reflection questions designed specifically for busy moms who need encouragement to slow down and receive God’s gift of rest.
Each week focuses on a different aspect of rest—from receiving God’s invitation to rest, to learning to abide in His presence, to letting go of worry and striving.
Let me leave you with this truth: rest is holy, and you are invited. Not because you’ve earned it, but because you are deeply loved by the Creator of the ends of the earth who never grows weary.
In your busy life, in the middle of all the beautiful chaos of motherhood, God is calling you to come away with Him — even just for a few minutes. He wants to restore your soul, give you His perfect peace and remind you that you don’t have to carry it all alone.
So take a deep breath, mama. Let go of the guilt about that undone laundry or the imperfect dinner plan. God’s rest is available to you right here, right now. You just need to receive it.
10 Bible verses and 3 songs to encourage you on your faith journey
God and I go way back. Honestly, I can’t remember a time in my life without Him, and I’m so thankful for that.
Though I’ve been a Christian for decades, I still have times of wavering faith and trust. I have never turned my back on God.
However, in hard times I have wondered how much I could truly trust Him. I’ve questioned whether my faith was strong enough.
And each time, I learned that I can trust Him completely. I can ask my Lord God for help with strengthening my faith when it starts getting shaky.
If I can turn my eyes to look at Christ Jesus instead of looking around me, my faith and trust are made stronger.
Just like with any relationship, our relationship with God is a day-by-day thing. I don’t mean that as in we need to doubt our salvation, but I do mean that in the way we choose each day (and sometimes each moment) to live in line with God or not.
It’s our choice to make Him a big part of our lives or keep Him tucked away in a small corner of our lives.
A couple of things help me most when my faith and trust in God get shaky: Bible verses and music. I’m encouraged to realized that God clearly knew we’d have moments of weakness and doubt. He knew that we’d struggle with faith and trust.
So He packed the Word of God full of verses to encourage us on our faith journey. God knows our weaknesses as humans, and He loves us anyway.
He gives us the tools we need along the way. It’s just up to us to utilize them.
This list of Bible verses are some of my favorite Bible verses about trusting God and having faith — even in difficult times.
Bible verses about faith and trust
He replied, “Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”
Matthew 17:20 (NIV)
I love this reminder of what just a teeny, tiny amount of faith can do! Have you seen a grain of mustard seed? They are 0.1 inch in diameter! That’s tiny.
Jesus is telling us here that even if our faith is small, it is still powerful. Can our faith be big? Of course! But even when it isn’t, it is still powerful.
“Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.”
Hebrews 11:1 (NIV)
I struggle with confidence in myself. And sometimes that can influence the confidence I have in God. I can slip into a negative attitude like, “I know God can fix this, but I don’t think He will.” I don’t usually utter those words aloud, but God hears them in my heart.
This powerful Bible verse, though, convicts my heart. Faith is being confident in the God we serve.
I can’t be confident in myself and that I’ll always come out on top, but I can be confident in God’s promises to always be with me and working for my good. God knows what He’s doing and will come out on top.
I am assured and can be hopeful that no matter what life brings, God is there with me. What better description of faith is there?!
“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”
Romans 15:13 (NIV)
Faith and trust really do go hand-in-hand. If we have true faith in the righteousness of God and God’s love for us, then we can trust He will always be with us.
Not only does this verse remind us we can have faith and trust in God, but it also tells us God is a God of hope.
Trusting in Him will bring us joy and peace. And, finally, it reminds us that the power of the Holy Spirit can fill our hearts to overflowing with hope.
“‘Go,’ said Jesus, ‘your faith has healed you.’ Immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus along the road.”
Mark 10:52 (NIV)
This is one example of many in the New Testament where Jesus heals someone based on their faith. They truly believe in Him and His power. He sees our inner being and knows our faith.
Does this mean we, as children of God, will always get what we want? No. Does it mean we will always be healed on earth? Also, no.
But it does mean that God sees you and will reward your faith. It also means our faith is about following Jesus.
Instead of running off to live his life in a way he’d only previously imagined, the former blind man immediately followed the Son of God. He knew where his blessing and healing had come from.
We, too, know where our blessings come from and can put our unwavering faith in Him!
“I have chosen the way of faithfulness; I have set my heart on your laws.”
Psalm 119:30 (NIV)
Faithfulness is a way of life we can choose. We choose faith even when our faith is shaken and wavering. Sometimes when we go through the acts of faithfulness, it grows our faith.
I have had times when my heart just wasn’t into worshipping God. Yet, I found myself drawn along in worship with other believers and before I knew it, God blessed my heart and encouraged me.
Living the life we know God has called us lead will draw us closer to Him, even when we are resistant or out of sorts.
“Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ.”
Romans 10:17 (NIV)
I’ve been going to church my entire life. I cannot begin to tell you ever sermon I’ve heard preached or Sunday School lesson I’ve sat through. But, they have all impacted me.
I have been at church services in the midst of tough times and felt the peace of God in my heart.
Being part of the kingdom of God on earth grows and strengthens my faith. This verse plainly tells us that faith comes from hearing the message, which is the word of Christ.
Keep on reading God’s Word, meeting with His people and listening to music that focuses on Him to keep your faith in tact.
“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
Isaiah 26:3 (NIV)
The peace in this verse is like that talked about in Philippians 4:7. It is God’s peace that is beyond our understanding.
When we trust in God, no matter how dire the circumstance is, He can give us peace that doesn’t make any sense. He can bring us comfort and assurance through every moment.
This is one promise of God I cling to in times of uncertainty.
“Those who know your name trust in you, for you, Lord, have never forsaken those who seek you.”
Psalm 9:10 (NIV)
This is a good verse to remember for those times you feel like giving up. I love the reminder to trust in our Father God and in the name of the Lord because He has never left me.
Remembering God’s faithfulness in the past helps me have faith and trust in Him even more in the present.
I have seen the power of God in my time of need in the past, and that gives me more strength and confidence in my Christian walk.
“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. In God, whose word I praise—in God I trust and am not afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?”
Psalms 56:3-4 (NIV)
My all-time favorite Bible verse is Isaiah 41:10, which reminds me that God is always with me and I don’t have to be afraid. These verses from God’s Word takes that even a step further.
Not only can we trust in God when we’re afraid and have Him give us peace, but we can rest assured there is nothing of eternal consequence others can do to us.
We sometimes need to hear the perspective that God is so much bigger than the hard times we go through. At the very least, we can celebrate the eternal life we have through Christ Jesus.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)
Trusting in God looks like letting go of trying to make sense of things. If we are leaning on His understanding, then we are not leaning on our own. Faith and trust often don’t make a lot of logical sense.
As we choose to follow God, we can decide He knows what He’s doing more than we can understand. Many times later on we are able to look back and see why He did things that didn’t makes sense at the time.
Faith and trust through music
When we are struggling with our faith and trust in God, remembering His past faithfulness is helpful. One lesson I have learned is God won’t ever leave me hanging. He has proven time and again that He’s right there with me every step of the way.
I’ve found often the best way for God to speak to my heart is through music. Many times I’ve felt the love of God while listening to and singing praise songs.
A couple of songs have really spoken to me about faith and trust. The first is “Yes He Can” by Cain. I love the message and reminder from this trio that God has always been there in the past and will be now.
Another song that speaks to my heart in so many ways is Bethel Music’s “Goodness of God.” It reminds us how God has always been faithful and so good. It’s one of my favorite songs!
Finally, Andrew Peterson has a song called “Faith to Be Strong” that has been out since 2000 and still inspires and uplifts me. I remember this song really touching my heart after the Sept. 11, 2001 terrorist attacks.
Sometimes more than anything, we just need to ask God for faith. Our Heavenly Father knows our faith and trust in Him can waver. He is ready to help us with both. It’s OK to be honest with Him about our feelings and ask for help!
A clean, Christ-centered alternative for fans of Harry Potter and Narnia
One of the first chapter book series I read out loud with my children was Harry Potter. The magic, intrigue and young hero create engaging stories of good winning over evil—but they lack a spiritual component.
And as lovers of fiction and a Christian family to boot, we also read through The Chronicles of Narnia. My kids enjoyed that as well.
Nowadays at 12 and 15, they do their own reading instead of us reading books aloud together. Finding an engaging Christian book series for teens is a bit like finding a unicorn.
That’s why I was incredibly excited for a chance to check out The Issachar Gatekeeper series by L.G. Nixon — an adventurous Christian fantasy series for teens. It reminds me of a mash-up between Harry Potter and Narnia.
I received free copies of “The Ghost of Darwin Stewart” and “The Ghost Writer,” two exciting Christian books for teens, in exchange for my honest review and social media coverage. All opinions are my own.
The main premise
We first meet Lucy Hornberger in the first book of the series, “The Ghost of Darwin Stewart.” Lucy is an average 13-year-old girl struggling with all things a young teen faces from friendship to chores to parent problems.
However, she also learned pretty quickly that she’s been chosen to vanquish ghosts. Her best friend, Schuyler Williams, is tasked with assisting her.
Together, they face intense spiritual battles and begin to understand the power and authority of The High King, who reigns over all that is good.
Lucy’s saga — and trials — continue in “The Ghost Writer” when she discovers a fellow student who’s been cursed.
Lucy is the perfect heroine for the series. She has faults and struggles youth readers will relate to. Even I — as a middle aged mama — found myself relating to her many times!
The recommended ages for this book is 12 to 17. That seems pretty spot on to me.
Ghosts in a Christian book
Don’t let the word “ghost” throw you off. These books aren’t about haunted houses or spooky specters.
Ghosts are often taboo in Christian circles — and understandably so in the sense of departed souls haunting others. But, that is not the take or interpretation in these books.
Nixon, a devout Christian, portrays these ghosts as manifestations of demon spirits. Early in the series, Lucy learns the ghost she sees isn’t the real Darwin Stewart but a demon taking his form.
Through The Issachar Gatekeeper series, Nixon draws inspiration from Scripture in ways that are both familiar to Christian readers and approachable for those new to the Bible. She crafts thrilling and mysterious stories without straying from Christian beliefs.
Much like in The Chronicles of Narnia, characters and situations aren’t called precisely the same as in the Bible. Yet, it also doesn’t take much thought for those familiar with God’s Word to pick out the key players.
The High King clearly represents God, while Darnathian, the main antagonist, represents Satan.
What Nixon does beautifully through her engaging fiction books is show stories and examples of the character of God and His goodness, mercy and forgiveness. The books showcase struggles of faith that everyone faces.
As an avid reader of Christian fiction myself, I love stories where the lessons are seamlessly woven in and don’t feel like a sermon. Both “The Ghost of Darwin Stewart” and “The Ghost Writer” do this very well.
Where to find these Christian books for teens
You could start with book two, “The Ghost Writer,” but I highly recommend beginning with book one to fully grasp the characters and storyline.
The series is sold at book retailers, but the best deal right now is on L.G. Nixon’s website. For $23.99 you get the two books mentioned here, the third book in the series (“The Ghost You Can’t See”) plus a bonus novella book “The Ghost in Your Christmas Present.”
One lesson I’ve wanted to instill in my children is God is always with them. They can talk to Him at any time. (As a mom, I love knowing that God is with them every moment, since I can’t be!)
So, we started teaching them to pray early on. It started as toddlers with simple prayers at bedtime and has evolved from there.
Yet teaching little ones to pray has its challenges. Prayer is intangible. It can be hard to understand.
While we want to encourage our children to talk freely with their Heavenly Father, we also want them to take it seriously. Finding the right balance is a struggle.
Whenever we find resources to make teaching our littles about prayer in a way they can understand, then we want to jump right on them!
Books about prayer for children are a terrific way to help our kids understand prayer in a relatable way. Reading to our children not only is good for them mentally and emotionally, it can also help them grow spiritually.
I received a copy of “All the Things I Say to God” at no charge in exchange for providing a children’s book about prayer review and social media posts about it. All opinions, however, are completely my own and not influenced by the free copy.
Finding the right book to read
The tremendous power of books is they can teach us lessons without feeling like they are teaching. An avid reader myself, I’ve learned so many things from the written words of others.
Children’s books need to be engaging in their story-telling and in their images. Kids should come away with new ideas and lessons learned while enjoying the book enough they want to read it time and again.
“All the Things I Say to God” fits this bill well. It’s beautifully illustrated by Anita Schmidt and poignantly written by popular poet, writer and speaker, Tanner Olson.
The book follows a little girl named Abby who is learning all about prayer. We see her learn how to pray on her own and not just with her parents at mealtime, bedtime and church.
Asking the best questions
From the early days when my children were starting to grasp faith, my husband and I have told them they can ask any question. We’ll find out an answer if we don’t have one — even if the answer ends up being that nobody knows for sure.
God is big enough to handle our questions. In “All the Things I Say to God,” Abby asks the questions kids have about prayer.
The book begins with her asking her mom whether she can pray on her own. So from the beginning, we learn anyone can pray at any age and at any time, a crucial lesson for children to learn.
Talking to God as a friend
In Abby’s first solo prayer, we read her words that very much reflect how a child would pray. She starts simply with “Hi, God! It’s me, Abby.”
She goes on to tell Him about her favorite things in life, her dog and seeing a butterfly that day. Her prayer is short, simple and sweet. And that’s exactly how kiddos (and adults!) start with prayer.
I remember my own two children often praying at bedtime and talking to God about what happened that day. This is a great way to get children talking to God and realizing He cares about all that’s going on in their lives.
Growing in faith
But the book doesn’t stop there. The more Abby prays, the more she wants to learn about prayer and what she can pray for.
She learns she can ask God questions and thank Him for His gifts. The book doesn’t talk about Abby getting answers from God. It merely says she’s excited for Him to answer.
At first reading, I felt like that was a negative in the book. We all want to know how God answers our questions!
Yet, I thought about it further and realized it’s a great way to handle it. Our children would often ask questions as we read and this is a perfect discussion opportunity for kiddos who are ready to address it. For kiddos who aren’t, it just gets them thinking of what they can talk to God about.
Praying without words
“All the Things I Say to God” even covers how to pray when we have nothing to say. Abby’s mom tells her that she can simply be quiet, listen and think about God.
This is a lesson we adults need as well! Sitting quietly in God’s presence and allowing Him to talk to us is often overlooked.
Olson does a good job of introducing this concept in an age-appropriate way to help children understand prayer is communication, not just us talking to God but also us listening.
In fact, this section is one of my favorites in the book:
“So that night, after the sun set and the moon shone bright, Abby lay quiet and still. She didn’t feel lost or alone — she felt safe and loved, just thinking about God.
“Abby knew God was with her always, even in the silence.
“Abby paused and remembered God in the quiet moments of the day.”
Excerpt from “All the Things I Say to God” by Tanner Olson
What beautiful words for both children and adults!
Praying for others
Finally, we see Abby learn to pray for others. She starts by telling God how much she loves her mother.
I love Abby’s very real conversation with God in which she says: “I love donuts with sprinkles, but I love my mom more.”
This makes me smile as a mama and also reminds me of what my kiddos said when they were younger.
Who the book is best for
If you are in a phase of teaching little ones to pray, this book is a great addition to your library that will open conversations with your children about prayer in their own life. Preschool through early elementary children would enjoy this book.
As someone who writes curriculum for children, I also love it for children’s ministries. “All the Things I Say to God” explains prayer well in a group setting, too.
Ultimately, the book helps children learn they can talk to God, too, about anything at any time and do so all on their own.
As moms, we’re naturally wired to put everyone else first. We pray for our children’s safety, our husband’s well-being and our friends’ struggles.
Yet when it comes to praying for ourselves, we often hesitate. Maybe it feels selfish, or perhaps we’re just so accustomed to placing our needs last that we forget we need prayer, too.
This week, we’re focusing on something vital but frequently overlooked: praying for yourself. This isn’t self-centered—it’s actually essential to your spiritual health and your ability to care for those you love.
This post is part of the “Praying Through the Busy” free Bible study. Find all the details:
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Why praying for yourself matters
God knows motherhood requires tremendous strength, wisdom and patience—far more than we possess on our own. That’s why He invites us to bring our needs directly to Him.
“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
Psalm 46:1 (NIV)
When we neglect to pray for ourselves, we’re essentially trying to mother from an empty well. We cannot continually pour out what we haven’t first received.
Just as flight attendants instruct parents to put on their own oxygen masks before helping their children, we need spiritual nourishment before we can effectively nurture others.
Jesus Himself modeled this practice. Despite the constant demands of ministry, He regularly withdrew to pray alone (Luke 5:16). If the Son of God needed this time of personal prayer and renewal, how much more do we?
What to pray for yourself as a mother
Sometimes we’re not sure what to pray when it comes to ourselves. Here are some vital areas to consider:
Pray for confidence
Whether you’re naturally confident or not, being confident as a mom is challenging. We question constantly whether we’re making the right choices or doing the right thing.
Motherhood is a lot of pressure. But the good news is, we aren’t going on this journey alone.
“God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.”
Psalm 46:5 (NIV)
I’ve always struggled with being hard on myself. But, becoming a mom took that to a whole new level.
I’ll never forget the doctor’s visit when our daughter was a couple of days old where the pediatrician we had to see questioned everything we were doing and made me feel like I was failing.
I sat in the backseat on the way home beside my sweet tiny girl and sobbed. (And you can bet we never went to that pediatrician again.)
I was already questioning everything. Becoming a mom is overwhelming and being confident in something brand-new is hard — especially when you’re hormonal and exhausted.
That was far from the only time I’ve needed confidence as a mom. While I can’t always find confidence in myself, I can find it in God. When He and I are working together (as in I’m truly seeking Him), we can do anything.
Father, thank you for being within me and keeping me from falling. I praise you for being with me at the break of each and every day and throughout the long, long nights of motherhood. Give me confidence in you that I will not fall and will have strength for the tasks you’ve set before me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Pray for strength and renewal
Motherhood can be physically and emotionally exhausting, whether you’re up all night with a newborn or worrying about a teenager making good choices.
God promises special strength to those who wait on Him:
“But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”
Isaiah 40:31 (NIV)
When you feel depleted, pray specifically for God’s strength to fill you. This isn’t a sign of weakness but of wisdom—recognizing your need for divine power beyond your own resources.
Recently, during a particularly challenging week with sick kids and looming deadlines, I found myself at the end of my rope by Wednesday afternoon.
Instead of pushing through on my own strength, I took five minutes alone to be honest with God that I didn’t have it in me to keep going. I begged for His strength.
That brief moment of surrender made all the difference in how I handled the rest of my day.
Dear God, help me to always place my hope in you. I ask that you renew and refill my strength daily. I get tired and weary as a mom and a woman. Give me your strength to keep going and not get weary or faint. Remind me you are with me every step of the way. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Pray for peace amid chaos
Mom life is rarely peaceful on the outside. There are spills to clean, schedules to manage and endless needs to meet.
But God offers an internal peace that transcends our circumstances:
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 4:6-7
When anxiety creeps in—about your children’s future, your family’s finances or simply how you’ll get through the day—bring those specific concerns to God. Exchange your worries for His peace.
And if you are like me and battle with anxiety regularly, keep going and giving it to God as many times as you need to. (Read more about how to deal with anxiety as a Christian.)
Father, I get anxious when I look at the things going on in my life around me. I ask that in every situation I encounter that you give me your peace, which is beyond my understanding. Thank you for all the blessings you have already given me. Please guard my heart and mind and help me to keep my focus on you. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Pray for wisdom
Every day as moms, we face countless decisions: How do I handle this behavior issue? Is this the right activity for my child? Should I be more strict or more lenient in this situation?
James offers this beautiful promise:
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”
James 1:5 (NIV)
God doesn’t expect you to have all the answers. He simply invites you to ask Him for the wisdom you need, moment by moment.
Many times throughout my motherhood journey, I have asked God for wisdom and guidance. Being a mom is a lot of pressure!
When my oldest was starting school, even just figuring out the best school for her was a challenge. I asked God for wisdom and guidance.
He opened the doors for her to go to a school I didn’t expect, and now — as she’s just finished her freshman year of high school — I see all the ways it’s been a perfect fit.
Dear God, I thank you and praise you for the wisdom you’ve already given me in my life. Thank you for giving it to me even when I mess up. Father, I ask that you continue to give me your wisdom. Help me to know the best ways to raise these children you’ve blessed me with. Give me the right words, thoughts and actions as their mama. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Pray for courage
Motherhood requires courage—courage to make tough decisions, to discipline consistently, to advocate for your children and to stand firm in your convictions when the world pushes against them.
“The LORD is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?”
Psalm 27:1 (NIV)
When you face intimidating situations—whether it’s confronting a school issue, navigating a difficult relationship or making a major family decision—pray for the courage that comes from knowing God is with you.
I’m a naturally quiet person who loathes confrontation. But I’ve had moments of having to stand up for and advocate for my children.
God has given me courage to do what is best for them and speak up when I didn’t have the strength to do so on my own.
Dear God, thank you for being my light and my salvation. I know that I have no one and nothing to fear, yet I often live like I do. Help me to overcome my fears and remember you are my stronghold on whom I can depend. You have already won the battle. Strengthen my faith and confidence in you. When fearful thoughts enter my mind, help me overcome them. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Pray for rest and restoration
In a culture that glorifies busyness, choosing rest can feel countercultural. Yet God designed us to need both physical and spiritual rest.
“Truly my soul finds rest in God; my salvation comes from him. Truly he is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken.”
Psalm 62:1-2 (NIV)
I know firsthand the struggle of finding downtime and rest as a mom — because our job never, ever stops. However, we truly need rest, and resting isn’t selfish or lazy.
I struggle with this often myself. Recently one of my children told me that I’ve been working too hard recently and need to give myself a break. Ouch!
We mamas are also setting examples for our children in how they should live and treat themselves. That’s even more motivation to model a healthy balance that includes rest and downtime.
And I can’t do this on my own. I need God’s help to prioritize rest and find ways to make it happen, even in the midst of the busy.
Father, I struggle with finding rest. Help my soul to find rest in you. Thank you for the salvation the comes from you. Remind me you are my rock who remains steady and in whom I can trust. Show me ways that I can stop even for just a few minutes and find the true rest and restoration that comes only through you. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Pray for grace in your weakness
None of us mothers perfectly. We lose our patience, say things we regret and fall short of our own expectations. In those moments, remember:
“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”
2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)
It’s hard to imagine that God’s strength and love can shine through my weaknesses, but they can. In fact, I have been able to use some of my own weaknesses to talk to my children about God.
My youngest struggles with anxiety. I have been able to talk with him about my same struggles with anxiety and how God has helped me with them.
I am thankful for any weakness that helps me understand my children more and point them to their Heavenly Father.
Dear God, thank you for giving me grace and loving me even in my weakness. I ask that the power of Christ rests on me and shines through me to those around me — including my children. I surrender my life and my motherhood to you. I know I am inadequate, but you are perfect. Let your perfection shine through to cover the places where I fall short. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Practical ways to prioritize prayer for yourself
Knowing we should pray for ourselves is one thing; actually doing it is another. Here are some practical suggestions for making it happen in your busy mom life:
Create prayer triggers
Identify routine daily activities that can serve as reminders to pray for yourself:
While brushing your teeth, pray for wisdom for the day
During your shower, pray for God’s strength
While waiting in the school pickup line, pray for peace and patience
As you wash dishes, pray for restoration
Keep Scripture cards handy
Write this week’s verses on index cards and place them where you’ll see them throughout the day—on your bathroom mirror, by the kitchen sink, in your car or saved as phone wallpaper. When you glimpse the verse, pause for a brief moment of prayer.
Set a daily appointment
Choose a specific time each day dedicated to praying for yourself, even if it’s just 5 minutes. Early morning before the house wakes up, during naptime or after bedtime often works well for moms.
Protect this time as you would any important appointment. You can quite literally set an alarm on your phone to remind yourself to pray.
Use prayer prompts in your journal
If you keep a journal, create a section specifically for prayers for yourself. Include prompts based on this week’s Scriptures:
Today I need God’s strength for…
I’m feeling anxious about… Lord, I give this to you and receive your peace.
I need wisdom regarding…
I need courage to…
My soul needs rest from…
I feel weak in… Lord, show your power in this area.
Join with others
Find a prayer partner—another mom who understands the importance of self-prayer. Check in weekly to share what you’re praying for yourselves and to encourage one another in this practice.
Joining a group of Christian moms can be a great way to find a prayer partner or to stay focused on God while dealing with motherhood. Be sure to check out our free and private Facebook group, Christian Moms with Grace.
Sometimes praying silently for ourselves doesn’t feel as “official” as praying for others. Try praying out loud for yourself when you’re alone, using your own name: “Father, please give [your name] the wisdom she needs for this decision…”
Overcoming guilt about praying for yourself
If you still struggle with feeling selfish when praying for yourself, remember these truths:
God commands us to love others as we love ourselves (Matthew 22:39). This assumes we will care for ourselves—not out of selfishness but as good stewards of the life God has given us.
Jesus invited people to come to Him when they were weary and burdened (Matthew 11:28). This includes you!
You’re modeling healthy spiritual practices for your children. When they see you valuing your relationship with God enough to bring your own needs to Him, they learn to do the same.
A beautiful thing happens when we start regularly praying for ourselves: we become more effective in loving and serving others. Rather than operating from depletion, resentment, or obligation, we serve from the overflow of what God is doing in our hearts.
“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.”
Proverbs 31:25 (NIV)
This verse describes a woman who has inner resources—strength and dignity that come from her relationship with God. As you pray for yourself this week, may you experience this same divine clothing, equipped for whatever motherhood brings your way.
Encouragement for moms
Dear mama, you are seen, known and deeply loved by the Creator of the universe. The God who knit your children together in your womb also knit you together in your mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13). He knows exactly what you need.
In the noise and demands of motherhood, don’t forget that you are still His beloved daughter. He delights in you coming to Him with your needs, your dreams, your struggles and your desires.
God isn’t distant from your motherhood journey—He is with and within you. You carry His presence with you through diaper changes and teenage drama alike. Because He is within you, you will not fall (Psalm 46:5). You can trust His help with each new day.
As you pray for yourself this week, my prayer is that you’ll experience a fresh awareness of God’s love for you, not just as a mother, but as His precious child. May you find freedom in bringing your whole self to Him, knowing that He cares about every detail of your life and heart.
Let’s conclude with a prayer you can pray right now to help you start focusing on praying for your needs as well.
Heavenly Father, Thank you for meeting me in the quiet pauses of my day and for the gift of your presence that sustains my heart, mind, body and soul. As I pray through these verses and practice resting in you, fill me with your peace that transcends every fear and every fatigue. Help me to carry these sacred pauses into my busiest moments—reminding me that you are my strength, my refuge and my hope. Empower me by your Spirit to make self-care a holy habit, so my cup overflows with grace to love my family well. May my life be a living prayer of thanksgiving and trust, reflecting your faithfulness in every step. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Age-by-age prayer lessons and activities that really stick
Teaching children to pray isn’t about creating mini-theologians. It’s about giving our kids a lifeline to the God who loves them unconditionally.
Just like the disciples who asked Jesus, “Lord, teach us to pray” (Luke 11:1-4), our children need guidance—and we need grace.
Prayer fits into real life: sticky fingers at dinner, late-night homework stress and chaotic car lines. It’s not about perfection; it’s about connection.
And that’s exactly what we are focusing on this week in the free Bible study for moms, “Praying Through the Busy.” Because along with wanting to grow in our own prayer lives, we want to teach our children how to pray.
This post is part of the “Praying Through the Busy” free Bible study. Find all the details:
Scroll to the bottom of the post for the link to download the free study guide, reflection questions, reading plan, prayer prompts and more for the week.
Preparing your own heart
Just like in everything we do as mamas, starting by preparing our own hearts and spending time in prayer is the first step.
We can’t do it on our own. Well, we can certainly try, but it never goes as well as when we have God’s help!
Even a simple, short prayer like “God, help me teach my kids to pray,” works well. (Scroll to the bottom for a more in-depth prayer.)
As you are teaching children to pray, make sure you are spending your own time talking to God and asking Him for guidance. We want our kiddos to learn to truly connect with their Heavenly Father, not just go through the motions.
Early on, for example, my son was often sick. A few months after he was born, his big sister started preschool and brought lots of germs home. We went FOREVER with someone constantly sick.
When my son started praying as a toddler, his prayer always included, “Jesus, help me feel better.”
That’s incredibly sweet, but as time went by, those words just became routine and he said them no matter what — even when he was perfectly healthy.
Even as an adult, I struggle with getting stuck in prayer ruts. So, we want to make sure we are intentionally teaching children to pray with the mindset it is a conversation with God and not just words we repeat.
Real-life prayer roadblocks (and quick fixes!)
Even the most determined mama hits a few speed bumps when teaching children to pray. Let’s tackle some of the biggest ones that pop up for most families at some point.
1. “We don’t have time!”
Between soccer practice, homework and chaotic car lines, prayer can feel like one more thing on the checklist.
Instead of adding a brand-new slot to your schedule, tie prayer to a rhythm you already have—the first bite of dinner, the seat-belt click or lights-out at night.
If the evening is wild, fall back on a two-sentence rule: “Lord, thanks for today. Help us rest well. Amen.” Consistency beats length every time.
Small times of prayer really add up. For example, praying together for just 60 seconds at bedtime will result in an extra 6 hours of family prayer time over the next six months—without adding a single item to your calendar.
2. “Praying out loud feels awkward.”
Kids—and plenty of adults—worry they’ll “say it wrong.” Start first with being honest: “I still get nervous sometimes, but God loves hearing from us.” Your authenticity gives them permission to try.
Start small: try echo prayers (you speak one short line, they repeat it) or a quick “thank-you round” where each person names one thing they’re grateful for.
If words still stick, let them hold something tangible—a favorite photo, a verse card, even a smooth stone—as a quiet reminder that prayer is simply talking to a loving Father. Authenticity always trumps eloquence, and we’ll dive into more hands-on ideas in the sections below.
(And be sure to check out the prayer prompt, age-specific cards for toddlers through teens in the premium bundle for the week!)
3. Short attention spans and endless screens
Little ones wiggle, and older kids’ phones buzz non-stop. Keep early prayer activities for kids brief—think 30-second bursts instead of 10-minute marathons.
A one-sentence gratitude in the car line or a quick “help me, Jesus” breath prayer before a math test models that talking with God fits into real life. (We’ll dive into specific age-based ideas in a moment.)
Distraction is another good strategy for teaching children to pray, especially when they are little. Try a coloring page to help them hold still and focus.
Tweens and teens can spot forced spirituality a mile away. Welcome their questions—God can handle them—and invite input: “What’s one issue you’d like us to pray about this week?”
When they choose the topic, they buy into the process. Remind them prayer isn’t magic words; it’s conversation with a Father who’s big enough for honest doubt.
Prayer lessons for every age: practical strategies
Talking with and teaching children to pray changes with them. The concept remains the same, but the topics shift dramatically from a toddler to a teen.
So, we’re going to break it down into age groups, but you can use any of these ideas for any age if you think they’d work well in your family!
Toddlers and preschoolers: Planting prayer seeds
For toddlers and preschoolers, prayer can be challenging to understand because it is a bit abstract. So, we want to find ways to make it more tangible, understandable and relatable for little ones.
Keeping prayers short (one or two sentences even), simple and fun are the best ways to pray with toddlers and preschoolers.
Object lessons on prayer are a great way to help them grasp the concept. Try some of these ideas:
Make a prayer basket
Fill a small basket with:
Picture cards of family members
Photos of favorite things
A cuddly “prayer bear” (or any soft, stuffed animal)
Introduce the prayer basket to your child as something we’re going to use to thank God. Let them cuddle with their “prayer bear” they only use at prayer time, and have them pull a card out of the basket.
Then help them simply pray and say, “God, thank you for ____________ (whatever is on the card) Amen.”
This is a great way to introduce them to prayer and to the concept that God gives us the good things in our lives.
Make a prayer hand craft reminder
Trace your child’s hand on a piece of paper and then label each finger with the following prayer prompts:
Thumb: Family
Pointer: Teachers/Leaders
Middle finger: People who need help
Ring finger: Friends
Pinky: Yourself
During prayer time, refer to the page and help your child pray for one thing per topic on each finger.
The prayer might be something like: Dear God, keep mommy and daddy safe. Thank you for my nursery school teacher. Help my friend Elizabeth feel better. Thank you for my friends Elizabeth and Katie. Help me learn to share with my little brother. Amen.
Daily, drop a bead or marble into a jar for each blessing you and your family name. When the jar is full, plan a special family night.
Elementary kids: Deepening the conversation
As children get older into elementary school, we want to encourage them to go deeper in their prayer lives and connect with God in new ways.
During these years, teaching children to pray is all about helping them truly understand prayer as a conversation with God. Reminding them they can talk to God about anything at any time is important.
When your child asks why we pray “all the time,” read 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18—“Rejoice always… pray continually… give thanks in all circumstances.” Then brainstorm quick “pop-up prayers” they can whisper during recess or math class.
Try some of these prayer activities for kids to help them learn to pray:
Start a simple prayer journal
You can make a prayer journal to use as a family or for your children to use on their own. For younger elementary students, a family prayer journal might work best. While older elementary students might enjoy having their own.
A prayer journal is a great way for children (and adults!) to track and celebrate God’s responses.
Put up a family prayer board
Use a cheap cork board, wall space or even the side of your refrigerator to make a family prayer board.
Write down prayer requests each day or week on sticky notes or index cards to go on the board. When a prayer is answered, let your children decorate that card with stickers and move it to a different area.
This is a very tangible way for your children to see prayer requests and God at work.
A lot like prayer baskets for toddlers and preschoolers, prayer envelopes are a simple and impactful way to help your children remember to pray for others.
You just need two envelopes of whatever size you have. Letter-sized or 5 x 7-inch ones work well.
Label one envelope: “To Pray For” and the other one “Prayed For.” Let your kiddos decorate the envelopes if they want.
Have your children make a list of people in their lives they’d like to pray for: family members, friends, teachers, specific prayer needs, etc. (My kiddos also included pets in theirs!)
Cut the list apart into strips, fold them and put them in the “To Pray For” envelope.
During prayer time, have your child draw a slip of paper from the envelope to pray for and then place it in the “Prayed For” envelope. You can rotate through the slips as many times as you want.
Tweens and teens: Authentic spiritual conversations
Prayer lessons for older kids is all about authenticity. Tweens and teens of can smell forced spirituality a mile away. This phase of teaching children to pray is more about cheering them on from the sidelines.
These ages are also when kid start questioning faith and having doubts more often. It’s a good time to remind them that God is good with difficult questions.
I’ve told my own two kiddos God can stand up to any question we have. If He couldn’t, then He wouldn’t be a God worth serving.
Though this phase of parenting may not look like nightly bedtime prayers, still find times to offer to pray with your children and remind them you are praying for them as well.
To help your tweens and teens grow even more in their prayer lives, try these ideas:
Give them a prayer playlist challenge
Music is powerful. During middle and high school, kids are usually naturally drawn to it.
So challenge your children to create a playlist of their favorite worship music. Encourage them to do some journaling or voice-memo prayers while listening.
Start a global prayer challenge
To help your tweens and teens start thinking about the world outside as a whole, start a global prayer challenge by picking a new country each week or month.
Research the prayer needs in that country together, and then commit to praying for them as a family or individually.
You can also keep this closer to home and do a national prayer challenge. My children are aware of a variety of alarming current events in our country, and we often talk about the importance of praying for such things.
Connect with technology
Use technology to your advantage and start a group text prayer chain in your family. A simple text thread where your kiddos (or you and your husband) can drop a prayer need or praise is a low-pressure way to keep prayer on their minds.
Oftentimes texting something is easier for kids at these ages than saying it.
A shared prayer app can be similar. Shared prayer apps are great for helping you remember prayer needs and also share them with others if you so choose.
(My personal favorite is PrayerMate, which is completely free.)
A mom’s prayer for teaching children to pray
Remember, mama: Prayer isn’t another chore on the family checklist; it’s the lifeline that makes the rest of the list lighter.
Whether you squeeze in a two-sentence car-line prayer or a deep teen conversation at 11 p.m., you’re modeling a faith that flexes with real life—and that example is what sticks long after the sticky fingers are gone.
Let’s conclude with a prayer you can pray right now to help you teach your children to pray:
Dear God, thank you for allowing us to talk with you freely and openly. I ask that you help me in teaching my children to pray and talk with you. Give me creativity in teaching my littles to pray. Help me to have patients when wiggly bodies won’t hold still. Fill me with your words as I give instructions and pray out loud with my family. Father, help me to get out of your way so you can move in my children’s lives. Give me wisdom and discernment to guide them in prayer. Remind me that every simple prayer we pray together plants a seed for a lifetime. Lord, teach my children to hear your voice, love your Word and lean on you in every season. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
