From messy to together, the life of a mother has it all!
I’ve been a mom for nearly 12 years now. I’ve certainly learned about the life of a mother by living it. Motherhood is filled with so many bittersweet moments, contradictions, challenges and love. And that’s what this is all about.
Sometimes and other times in the life of a mother
Sometimes I wash, dry, fold and put away laundry all in the same day.
Other times, the laundry stays in the dryer for three days before I get it out to fold.
Sometimes I prepare homemade, balanced meals to feed my family.
Other times, I order pizza or go through a fast food drive-thru.
Sometimes I have an abundance of patience for my children.
Other times, I hide in the bathroom with the door locked to regain my composure.
Sometimes I plan fun activities for our family to do.
Other times, we sit on the couch and watch YouTube videos.
Sometimes I empty the dishwasher while the dishes are still hot.
Other times, I plan lunch around disposable dishes so I don’t have to empty the dishwasher.
Sometimes I’m perfectly content as I do the same tasks over and over and over again.
Other times, I long for something different in my daily routines.
Sometimes I plan our meals for the entire week.
Other times, I have no idea what we’ll have for dinner until a half hour before dinnertime.
Sometimes I take my kids to the park or splash pad.
Other times, I struggle to be motivated to turn on the sprinkler in the backyard.
Sometimes I have my kids’ drawers organized with only clothes that fit.
Other times, we sort through stacks of too-small clothes in their drawers to find the ones that work.
Sometimes I think I’m the only one who sees a house full of chores to do.
Other times, I notice the chores my family does and appreciate them.
Sometimes I question whether I can ever be a good enough mama.
Other times, I feel like I’m rocking my motherhood journey.
Sometimes I worry I discipline too much.
Other times, I worry I don’t discipline enough.
All the time in the life of a mother
But then, there are the constants in the life of a mother.
All the time, I love my children more than the air I breathe.
All the time, I want the best for my children.
All the time, I need Jesus to give me strength.
All the time, I try my hardest, even when it may not look like it.
All the time, I want to be better and do better.
All the time, I want to be patient.
All the time, I want my children to know they are loved.
All the time, I think first of my family before myself.
All the time, I thank God for the blessing of my husband and children.
And never ever do I regret becoming a mama.
So many things at so many times
The days may be long and the years be short, but I am thankful for the mundane and hard. I’m thankful for the stressful and overwhelming. I’m thankful for the joy, the love and the sweet moments.
I cannot imagine a different life now that I have this one.
The life of a mother is so many things at so many times. I pray that I somehow enjoy the ride and have enough energy left to get through each moment and recognize it for its preciousness.